A Woman's Guide to Finding the Perfect Partner

When it comes to finding romance, women face challenges that men don't have to worry about.

We're more prone to get hurt.

We can feel pressured to give more than we're comfortable with and are sometimes expected to behave in ways that aren't always healthy or fair.

Here are some tips on finding the right guy without sacrificing your happiness or sense of self.

You deserve someone who will treat you right—let this guide help you find him!

Figure out what you want

Before finding love, you have to know what you want out of a relationship.

• Do you want someone who shares your passions?
• Is someone more laid-back?
• Are looks important, or is there more to love than that?

Your ideal partner may not be compatible with your friends and family—or even make sense for your career.

But it's always helpful to do some soul searching before you throw yourself back into dating.

The better prepared you are, the more likely a happy relationship will follow.

Don't be hard on yourself

If you've been struggling to find love, it's important not to beat yourself up.

Dating isn't always easy; sometimes, you'll find a great guy who isn't suitable for you, and that's okay.

If you've given every relationship your all but have still come up short time and again, try not to be hard on yourself; just because things haven't worked out in the past doesn't mean that they won't eventually.

Before meeting any new guys, remember that there is someone out there for everyone--you need to get back out there and give love another chance!

Look within yourself

It may sound trite, but you can't find romance if you don't already have it.

Attracting a potential partner should always begin with self-love and confidence; we are naturally drawn toward people who give off positive energy and self-confidence.

If you don't feel attractive or happy with yourself, it will be difficult for others to see those qualities, making it difficult for someone to fall in love with you.

Before finding romance, make sure that your life is filled with fun things that put a smile on your face. Self-improvement comes from within so start there first!

Think about what is important to you

If you have decided that romance is essential in your life, make a list of what matters most.

Maybe it has a partner who supports you and your goals or someone with whom you can travel frequently.

Maybe it's someone who will laugh at your jokes, appreciate how much time you spend volunteering at church, or share an interest in learning new languages.

Whatever qualities are most important for you to find love should be high on your priority list.

Once you know what qualities matter most, please start thinking about how to pursue them to fit your personality and schedule.

Know where and how to meet people

Sure, online dating is an excellent way to meet people.

But there are plenty of other options for singles looking for love.

It all depends on what you're looking for.

If you're hoping to meet someone special through friends or family, we have advice.

And if you want to make an effort with coworkers, check out our suggestions there.

Whether you like casual dates or formal outings, we have tips on picking a good spot—and knowing your audience is essential when it comes time to order!

Meet new people in different ways

There are many ways to meet new people in your life, but you have to put yourself out there.

When you're trying to find love, it's important not just to go out and meet new people all by yourself.

You should also be open and approachable when you're with other people.

For example, at a party or social gathering, please make an effort to talk with new people and smile at them when they enter a room.

This can help ensure that those who enter your social circle know that you're open and approachable, making them more likely to want to become part of your life.

Networking events are also an excellent way for busy professionals like yourself to try out new connections with others on your level.

Get comfortable being uncomfortable (yes, really!)

Getting comfortable with being uncomfortable is a big key to finding romance. So many of us worry about being awkward, doing things wrong, and coming off badly so that we don't get out there and meet new people.

That was certainly my experience! But if you want to find love—and I think we all do—you need to be willing to stretch yourself.

Try new things and meet new people even if it makes you uncomfortable! It doesn't matter how long it takes for you; all that matters is that you're trying.

And keep an open mind when meeting someone for coffee or drinks on a first date.

Don't assume they'll be weird because they're different from your exes, neighbors, or friends.

Take a chance now and then

It can be easy to get stuck in a rut and date people you already know or people you've always dated.

But it's more important that you experience life than settling down with one person.

So take a chance now and then! Break free from your comfort zone and give someone new a shot.

You may find something magical happens when you say yes instead of no. It's worth taking a chance once in a while—you never know what could happen!

Who knows?

Your next date could turn into your future spouse!

But remember—no matter how crazy things get, make sure he (or she) is still respectful, kind, and has good manners before things go too far.

Accept rejection as part of dating (and life!)

If you're reading dating tips, you've experienced a little rejection in your life.

Rejection can feel devastating, but it doesn't have to be! Instead of avoiding rejection at all costs, learn how to treat it as a necessary part of dating.

Sure, it stings if someone is uninterested in you or if you get rejected for a job or internship opportunity, but those things happen all the time.

Life would be incredibly dull if we were all automatically accepted when we applied for something or tried out for something.

Rejection is okay — keep doing what makes you happy and know that rejection will happen anyway at some point!

Make it fun!

Being single doesn't mean you can't find romance.

Whether you're looking for a long-term relationship or just a fling, it all starts with knowing what you want—and that means understanding your own needs and desires.

When I was a single woman, I always felt like there were two parts of me in every interaction I had with guys.

There was me, and then there was a woman looking for romance. Looking back on it now, I realize that although those two parts both worked together—the part looking for romance far outweighed my social life.

One of my first pieces of advice is to make sure you are comfortable being single before going out into the dating world.

It will help put you in a positive mindset when meeting new people and ultimately help you have more fun!