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A Man Must Feel These 5 Things to Fall in Love

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By Craig DanielsPublished 2 years ago 3 min read
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A Man Must Feel These 5 Things to Fall in Love
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The love of a man for you could last forever if you know what are the secret springs that make him fall in love. The simple truth is this: his body, heart, and mind must vibrate in unison for him to truly consider you the woman of his life. But don't think that love is easy.

After the first stage, when your eyes meet and you feel attracted to you, the real struggle to build a relationship begins. And it is important to know all the tricks of this "fight", because only in this way will you reach the deep intimacy that characterizes the great love.

Love is not just a romantic dance. It's a real gladiatorial confrontation, in which you have to know the darkest secrets of the opponent.

The 5 things that bring love into a man's heart

1. You are the safest place in the world for him

Your whole being is a refuge for him, where he feels protected and carefree. Even if he hides it carefully, in the soul of any man there is a child who needs to be hugged and protected. If he doesn't feel safe with you, a man will eventually leave, because you can't be a home for him.

But if you manage to become his safe place in this universe, he will never leave you and you will have his whole affection. No matter how many temptations there are around him, he will always come back to you.

2. He wants to feel like a hero

This requires you to show that you rely on him and his strength whenever you are in need. Every man wants to feel that the woman next to him has full confidence in his strength; this amounts to a show of love for him.

That is why you must learn to appreciate his unique wisdom, his strength, and his support. Show him that he is your hero, who can support you in any situation, who saves you from any difficulty. Men fall in love with women who consider them their heroes.

3. He does not need your criticism, but praise

With a man, you have to apply the same method as with a child, if you want him to feel appreciated. Therefore, praise his positive behaviors and ignore the negative ones.

This simple form of conditioning can be the beginning of his love for you. No one wants to be criticized, but men want more than anything to appreciate and praise their loved ones.

Don't use criticism or manipulation to get what you want from your boyfriend. The feminine way of influencing is to seduce rather than coerce. Men are eager to have their merits recognized, both at home and in public, if possible.

If you have a constant power struggle with a man, he will slowly move away from you. His love will grow as he feels more valued by you.

4. The sexual side is very important for a man

In love, do not consider sexuality a luxury, but a necessary basis for a man's love for you. If you don't give him these delicacies that he appreciates so much, you can't keep his interest awake for too long.

Love is a full, bodily, mental, and emotional communion. A man can fall madly in love with you if you show him that you enjoy the moments spent in intimacy, that he gives you complete satisfaction. Free yourself from inhibitions, because they are an obstacle to full and healthy intimacy.

5. You need to open to him and tell him how you feel

Share your fears, pain, desires, and dreams with him, show him your humanity. He is looking for a place where all his emotions can be accepted, but also a person who can talk openly about his feelings.

If you can't express and accept your own emotions, you certainly won't be able to help him with his own. Many men do not recognize their feelings and unconsciously look for a woman to help them discover their emotionality.

A man falls in love with the woman with whom he has a lively, full emotional communication. Develop your emotional intelligence so that you can connect with your partner's soul.

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