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Don’t Fall in Love Until You Find the Man Who Wants to Follow You Completely

Choosing the right person is crucial

By Craig DanielsPublished 2 years ago 4 min read
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Don’t Fall in Love Until You Find the Man Who Wants to Follow You Completely
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Don't let anyone convince you that love is difficult. Love must not always keep you waiting, for fear that you might be abandoned, it must not make you cry all the time, it must not ruin your life.

If all this happens because of a man, it means that it is not love.

Then why would you want to get involved with someone who doesn't even give you true love?

Why do you want to condemn yourself to an unhappy life, listening to a person who tries to manipulate you, to convince you that love is difficult?

Love must set you free, not a burden. Life is too short to give chance after chance to someone who never stops hurting you. Learn to take care of yourself, respect yourself, and better stay alone until you meet true love.

Don't fall in love with a man who hurts you

Keep your feelings for a person who truly deserves you, who is by your side in ways that no one else has, someone strong enough to catch you when you fall, mature enough to commit to your relationship, and be open-minded to share your whole life with you.

Better a poor horse than no horse at all. " Avoid men who are tough and show up inaccessible to set you on fire. A man who truly loves you does not have time to play such immature games with you.

Stay alone until you find the man who wants to spend every moment with you

You do not receive in your life a man who is not able to have a conversation, who is not interested in knowing everything about you, to fully understand you. Wait for that tender lover who understands that a genuine relationship can only be built in two, who is ready to do for you as much as you do for him.

Do not accept a person who is not able to fight for your love, who makes no effort to keep you close to him.

Don't fall in love until you find a man to surround you with his love

Look for a man who will show you, moment by moment, that he loves you, who will make you feel appreciated and respected, who will make all kinds of beautiful gestures for you: he will call you in the first hour to see how you feel when he has to stay away from you, he kisses you tenderly in the evening, before bed, he cooks your favorite dinner and he brings you breakfast in bed.

Don't be fooled by a man who doesn't think about you every moment. It is better to be alone than with someone who makes no effort to make your relationship work, who no longer has any spark of passion for you.

Remember, love must not hurt! The man who loves you will always show you his feelings, instead of making you worry about him.

Don't fall in love until you meet the one who makes you feel that love is the freedom of the soul, not a sacrifice you have to make to have someone by your side.

Bonus: 3 things you realize is the ideal man

He doesn't play games on the phone!

Don't think about Candy Crush or Pokemon Hunt. But in those situations, so annoying, in which you call him and he doesn't answer, or in which you send him a message, and the answer arrives only after seven hours (during which time, of course, he wasn't even in the guard of the emergency hospital and did not even sign a transaction of millions of euros).

A man who wants to get involved and is not interested in games will call you back as soon as he sees your call. Messaging with him is as spontaneous and open as a real-time conversation. And, by no means, will he ask you for sexy pictures and send you indecent pictures!

He makes a serious effort to impress you

Many men try their best to impress their potential partners by either taking them to an exclusive restaurant (where they are not necessarily regulars at home) or by offering them a whole new experience for them (such as visiting a new destination), riding a motorcycle, practicing another extreme sport).

Give him a white ball, because that means he's trying!

He has no problem introducing you as his girlfriend

If she introduces you to a circle of close friends or takes you to a family reunion, it's a sign that she's interested in you and has no qualms about showing up with you as an official partner.

Men do not hide their girlfriends with whom they have serious intentions.

On the other hand, if he says that he is not yet ready for this step, it means that he is scared by the idea of ​​a future together and it is not good to put pressure of any kind. And don't even imagine a future together!

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