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A Different Kind of Freedom: Reflections on Women’s Day

Looking beyond slogans to understand the true value of women.

By Aarsh MalikPublished 7 months ago • 4 min read
A Different Kind of Freedom: Reflections on Women’s Day
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Every year on the 8th of March, the world fills with slogans about women. Social media lights up with bright posters, companies post polished messages, and speeches echo the same familiar phrase: “Celebrate women’s freedom.”

But sometimes I sit quietly and wonder what that freedom actually means.

Walk through any modern city and you will see the image that today’s world celebrates. A woman rushing to work with a laptop bag on her shoulder. A woman proving that she can compete in every field a man can enter. A woman told from childhood that independence means standing alone, earning alone, surviving alone.

To many people, this is the definition of empowerment.

Yet somewhere between these loud definitions of freedom, another question quietly waits: Is freedom only about doing what men do? Or is it about being valued for who women truly are?

Long before today’s debates, faith traditions had already spoken about women’s dignity. In Islam, knowledge is not forbidden for women. On the contrary, education is encouraged. Learning, reading, understanding the world—these are rights that belong to both men and women.

This encouragement is not only cultural but rooted in Islamic teaching itself. The Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) emphasized the importance of learning for all believers. In a well-known narration, he said: “Seeking knowledge is obligatory upon every Muslim.” (Sunan Ibn Majah). Classical scholars explain that the word “Muslim” in this context includes both men and women, making education a responsibility shared by all members of the community. This encouragement is not only found in Islamic teachings. Even in the Bible, the pursuit of knowledge and understanding is emphasized.

But Islam also recognizes something deeper about human nature. It acknowledges that the world is not always gentle. A woman’s beauty, personality, and presence can attract both respect and unwanted attention. Because of this reality, the idea of modesty exists—not as a punishment, but as a shield. It is meant to protect dignity in a society that sometimes tries to turn women into objects of attention rather than individuals with worth.

Unfortunately, modern discussions often misunderstand this completely. Some people believe religion locks women inside walls and steals their opportunities. Yet the intention was never to silence women or erase their ambitions.

The intention was balance.

In many traditional households, a woman is not seen as a worker forced to struggle outside simply to survive. She is treated as the heart of the home. The man carries the responsibility of providing, protecting, and facing the hardships of the outside world, while the woman governs the inner world of the family. She raises generations, shapes character, and builds the emotional foundation of society itself.

In this sense, the home is not a prison. It is a kingdom.

A mother, a sister, a daughter—they are not expected to fight every battle alone. They are meant to be supported.

Of course, reality does not always reflect ideals. There are places where women are unfairly restricted, where education is denied, or where control replaces care. These situations are not justice; they are distortions of it. Any society that blocks women from learning or growing misunderstands the very principles it claims to protect.

Women deserve education. They deserve respect. They deserve safety and dignity.

But perhaps the real conversation of Women’s Day should go deeper than slogans. Maybe the question is not simply whether women should work or stay home, cover or not cover, follow tradition or break it

Maybe the real question is this:

Are we honoring women for their true value, or are we just giving them new expectations under the name of freedom?

Because freedom should never mean replacing one pressure with another.

True respect means recognizing that women are not copies of men, nor competitors in a race designed by someone else. They are creators of life, builders of families, teachers of generations, and pillars of emotional strength.

And perhaps the greatest celebration of women is not in a hashtag or a speech.

It is in understanding their worth, protecting their dignity, and giving them the respect they have always deserved.

Author’s Note

I Really wanted to explore this topic in a much deeper and more detailed way. There are many layers to the discussion that deserve careful explanation and thoughtful reflection. However, due to a busy schedule and other commitments, I did not have enough time to expand on every aspect the way I had planned.

Since I hoped to publish this piece on March 8, I had to complete it more quickly than I would normally prefer. Because of that, some ideas may feel shorter or less developed than they could be.

I hope to revisit this subject in the future and discuss it more thoroughly in another essay.

Thank you sincerely for your continued support and for taking the time to read my work. If you have thoughts, questions, or perspectives on this topic, please feel free to share them in the comments. I would truly value the conversation.

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Aarsh Malik

Poet and storyteller who believes in the quiet power of words.

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    Written by Aarsh Malik