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6 Signs That You Found The Right Partner For You

It's important to share your life with a person compatible with you.

By Dev DodsonPublished 2 years ago 3 min read
6 Signs That You Found The Right Partner For You
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Things seem to be going well, but you're not sure he's the "chosen one." In other cases, the two have been together for so long and no longer appreciate the relationship, although others may envy them. Find out the 5 signs that you have found the right partner.

A successful marriage requires more than just sexual attraction and common interests. It's a good start, but more is needed. An excellent relationship gives the two a safe space in which both partners can love, honor, and respect each other. Find out how you realize that you have found the perfect partner for you and you have a fulfilled relationship.

You can tell him anything

You have found the right person when you know that you can communicate your desires and problems to each other, as well as listen to each other. You know each other and respect your limits. A healthy relationship is important to cultivate, because the opposite - a toxic relationship - affects the quality of life, increasing the risk of depression and anxiety.

It affects sleep and can lead to unhealthy habits. On the other hand, being in a high-quality romantic relationship is a fact associated with greater well-being in all respects. This ensures your physical and mental health.

You are relaxed

You know that you have found the right partner when you can be honest with each other, you can be yourself, without feeling the need to censor yourself. In addition, you have a lot of trust in each other. You know you don't have to check if the other person is telling the truth. You don't have to look at his laptop or phone to see if he's wrong. In addition, you give each other freedom. You have your concerns, but also many in common.

You usually enjoy spending time together, but there are times when everyone meets their friends, does a hobby that the other does not share, and so on. The moments spent separately make the reunion more interesting and bring new topics for discussion.

You know the language of love

If you haven't read Gary Chapman's The 5 Languages ​​of Love, you should. In it, you discover the language in which your partner prefers to give and receive love: through words, quality time, gifts, services, In a healthy relationship, you took the time to learn the "language of love" to each other, so so that you can express your love in a way that works for both of you.

You agree not to agree

Among these signs that you have found the right partner is not the fact that you are not arguing at all. Every couple quarrels. But it is not necessary to reach the same point of view. It's okay to have a few topics that you two will never agree on.

Sometimes it's okay to agree that you don't agree. In healthy relationships, there are at least five things that members have differences of opinion about, and that's okay. Even so, you encourage each other to pursue your goals.

These do not have to be common, as long as you encourage each other to touch them. If you can talk to your partner, he recognizes and understands your limitations, and that's a good sign.

He supports you

At the end of a long day, you feel the support you need from your boyfriend. If he listens to you, gives you advice, encourages you, protects you, and supports you in all decisions, your relationship is very likely to last a lifetime.

You feel that he is close to you and would do anything to help or support you in your endeavors.

He leaves space for you

Staying alone is not good for your relationship. You need your own space and friends. And he understands this, so he allows you to nurture your independence, passions, relationships and not put pressure on the relationship.

It does not always stay in your soul and does not invade your privacy. Understand that you need time with yourself and respect that.

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