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6 Signs That a “Pleasant” Person Secretly Has Evil Intentions

It's better to stay away from such people.

By Chance RichPublished 2 years ago 3 min read
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6 Signs That a “Pleasant” Person Secretly Has Evil Intentions
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This person seemed cheerful and open to you. You soon became close and even, as it seemed to you, friends.

But as you get to know him more and more, there is a feeling that he is not what he seems. Wonderful person, it's just a mask and someone else is hiding behind it… And sooner or later, their true identity will come to light.

There are quite a few such people, unfortunately. They carefully hide the true intentions and if you are not careful enough, they will use you in one way or another. And when they get what they want, they'll wipe their feet off you and forget about friendship - because, in their eyes, nothing existed.

So here are 6 signs that a person is secretly plotting evil intentions:

1. Constantly ask for something from you

A manipulator who pretends to be a good and kind person often cannot defeat his inner essence, which manifests itself in constant demands. Such people, in the beginning, are sure that they are better than others and are simply obliged to use them for their benefit.

In order not to follow in their footsteps, you simply refuse to participate in their commitments and meet their requirements. Especially if they start blackmailing you into threatening to break your "friendship."

A person who threatens to break up with friends because you don't do what he wants is not your friend at all.

2. After talking to him, you feel empty

When, after a conversation, you often feel bad or weird, then maybe your subconscious is trying to convey to you that something is wrong here.

When you spend time with a good person, then in his presence you feel good and positive. But if you are not lucky enough to meet such a person on the path of your life, then after talking to her, you will most likely be very exhausted.

3. He is betrayed by his body language

Natural manipulators know how to make you trust them with the help of the eyes and the correct body language. But if you take a closer look at them, you'll see that they all look pretty overlapping and artificial.

If someone is always trying to look you in the eye, trying to keep in touch with you anyway… Well, this may be a sign that the person you're talking to is far from as simple and open as he or she wants to be.

4. For them, trying to convince something is just a game in which they are masters

If you are dealing with a passionate manipulator, who pretends to be a good person, you will soon realize that in a way he manages to convince you to do something they need, even if it hurts.

If you do not agree immediately, they will put pressure, go in the opposite direction and even connect friends and relatives to the tests.

Such people can manipulate others for their purposes.

5. Their humor is humiliating or abusive

It is assumed that a "sweet" person, who is trying to get something from you, may try to lower your self-esteem by humiliating you or insulting you with the help of the alleged "humor". When he says something offensive to you, I do it with a smile, accompanied by a sentence like, "I'm just kidding."

It's not a joke at all - it's a way to make you feel "lower" than this person. Manipulators often use such tactics in public to make you feel even more humiliating.

6. A conversation with such a person is always one-sided

Nice people, with hidden intentions, usually tend to dominate any discussion, trying, to turn it into a monologue. They manipulate any conversation so that it begins to revolve around them.

It's quite difficult to notice, but after talking to such a person for a while, you realize that often you can't just insert a remark into the conversation. And that any conversation sooner or later slips into a discussion about his problems and needs.

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