One of the hardest things in life is trying to maintain a relationship. Whether it be a friendship, or between family, or most importantly a romantic relationship - someone you plan to share forever with. While carrying on in these type of relationships you will learn just how important consistency is. Don't ignore it.
There are plenty of things in a relationship that must remain consistent in order for the relationship to continue its course in a healthy and happy manner. Consistency in a relationship is important, it's almost as crucial as to what may make or break the relationship.
Personally, I believe consistency is very important in all of my relationships, especially my romantic ones. I like to point out what I feel is most important in the beginning of any relationship I encounter and consistency is at the top of my list.
Here are 3 things that I feel make consistency in a relationship so important.
Structure
When you have structure and you are aware of the relationships flow, then you have consistency. And structure is necessary in order to keep things on track, and when things are on track they are consistent.
Think about structure as having a set plan, and doesn't things go smoother when you have a plan? For me they do. Try to keep the structure in a relationship, it will help keep things organized and not all over the place causing extra unnecessary stress.
Teamwork
No one likes to do chores as it is, imagine having to do all the chores by yourself while your partner just sits around watching television. I know I wouldn't be happy about that. I mean, unless they are physically incapable of contributing help then okay I can sympathize.
Teamwork plays a huge role in a relationship. Let's not forget teamwork in parenting and in all other major aspects of a relationship. I singled out chores because this seems to be a big problem in most relationships. Not everyone likes to give a helping hand.
When you are consistent with working together as a team you will feel less stressed and the relationship will remain smooth and on all fours.
Love and affection
What is a relationship with out love? Am I right. I absolutely love LOVE in all of its many forms.
This is where consistency should play a huge role. Love and affection. We all want it, we all search for it. And when we do we want it to remain consistent, because I mean imagine how that feels, loved today and then nothing until next week. That sounds pretty sad to me.
Be consistent. Show your partner love and affection, you don't have to smother them, but show them you're there, show them they are loved. And if you remain consistent in those actions because you genuinely are in love and you genuinely do want to be near them and show them, it will help build a stronger bond. It will help with structure and teamwork would happen without a fight, and you can happily end each night with a hug and a kiss.
Consistency is key. Most people forget how important it is in life and how important it is in love. When we are inconsistent our balance is off, and when your balance is off things aren't getting done properly. Be consistent always, and always work together with your partner to improve individually and as a whole. When things are flowing properly and consistent you tend to become more structures as a unit giving you more opportunity to enjoy the breath of fresh air together.
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