They say it's the little things that matter the most, and honestly I have to completely agree with that. Throughout life we often forget how important it is to focus on the little things, such as a hug or a smile that can, believe it or not save someone at that very moment it's received. We can't take those gifts for granted, we must always shower those who we love and those who we feel need it the most.
Relationships are hard to maintain, and making sure you focus on the little things that matter the most can be quite the challenge. Especially, when we're too busy focusing on the big things like household chores, paying bills, or taking care of the children. We have to program our brains to stop for a second and think about what matters the most and focus on the one thing that we should be watering properly, which is our relationship.
There are many things that we do to keep our relationships strong, but there are many little things we forget that is needed that can really strengthen our connection with our partner. Here's 5 small gestures that may help strengthen your relationship. I use them religiously.
Compliment your partner
Compliments go a long way in a relationship. Of course your partner wants to feel cute or pretty. Of course they want to feel like they're wanted by you. Of course they want to feel attractive. It's a natural want in a relationship. Compliment them always. When you're getting dressed for dinner or an event of some sort, stop for a second and look at them and just simply say, "You look great, or you look amazing, or nice ass!" That smile will be painted on their face for the rest of the night.
Write them a note
Ah notes, I have been writing my fiancé a small note that she finds every Monday morning for over 2 years now and have not missed a week. She glows every time she finds it.
Write a little love note every now and then, or something naughty to spice things up. Slip it in their lunch bag, or their purse, or wallet. Write a little note on the steamy bathroom mirror so they can read when they get out of the shower. Leave a sticky note in their car or on their wipers. It feels good to be thought of, and their smile is rewarding.
Be a good listener; always have eye contact
Listen with pure intent at all times. Have full eye contact when they're speaking. The worse feeling is telling a story you're extremely excited to share with your partner and getting zero response in return. Always listen, it shows you really care about the things they care about.
Always say please and thank you
Appreciation is big in a relationship. We all want to feel appreciated at all times. So always be sure to use good manners. Use please and thank you to show how thankful you are for their help even if it is just holding the door open for you.
Hugs and kisses
One hug can change someone's mood from bad to good in seconds. A hug is known to increase positive emotions almost instantly. Always hug your partner. When they're doing the dishes sneak behind them and steal a hug. When you're greeting hello or saying goodbye, hug them.
Kisses, who doesn't love a sweet kiss. Just like a hug, greet and say your goodbyes and seal it with a kiss. Little kisses here and there ramp up those butterflies and keep the chemistry boiling.
It is crazy how just a small and simple gesture can really strengthen your relationship. It shows your partner that you care and that you appreciate and love them. Study their love language, a high percentage of people enjoy these 5 gestures before house chores or running errands, not to say we don't want that help either. But such simple gestures as these 5 can help with connection and build passion between you and your partner.
We do it in the name of love, to keep love alive and thriving. Love is a beautiful thing and when we know how to make it shine while working our magic we can have the most fulfilling relationship we've ever had. Never stop doing the little things that matter and always remember to tell them you love them - it's the icing on the cake!
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