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With what simple tricks you make women really hot ?

by Omara 7 months ago in how to
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You want your partner to seduce you more often? here you have 6 effective methods that makes women so hot that they take the initiative more often. you will have much (more) sex!

Are you the one in your relationship who rings the bells more often for a quickie? In the long run, it can be quite tedious to steer a woman towards bed. It’s not even the case that women want sex less often or even have less desire. Why does she still make no effort to make the first move? Quite simply because she is used to you being the one who gives the starting signal. In addition, many women do not admit their sexual desires and fear rejection. In order for your partner to drop the false shame, you need to prove to her that it’s okay for her to demand satisfaction. We have ultimate tricks that will make your partner so hot that she can’t help but seduce you. Get ready — you’re going to have a lot (more) sex!

1st tip to get a woman hot: Start (too) early with foreplay.

Seduction doesn’t start on the edge of the bed. Women need much longer than men to get going. That’s why you need to start arousing your partner’s excitement early. Go about it in a refined way: If you want your partner to drag you to bed in the evening, you should start with some hot foreplay in bed in the morning. However, do not overdo it. Just get her in the mood and crave more tenderness. During the day, you can fuel her desire with short ambiguous text messages. If it goes well, your partner will demand the hot continuation of foreplay all by herself in the evening.

2nd tip to make a woman hot: make her relax.

When a woman is stressed, sex is pretty much the last thing on her mind. This is evolutionary and something like a survival mechanism. So when your partner comes home after a hard day’s work to find dirty laundry piling up in the bathroom and dishes in the kitchen, it’s virtually impossible for her to get into a hot adventure with you. The solution: so that she can still pursue her desire, you should help her to relax. It sounds simple, but it is, if you do it right. By the way, it doesn’t mean that you have to do all the housework from now on so that you can be seduced by your beloved. It already helps if you create joint “islands” in your everyday life. For example, share the housework, go for long walks, run her a bath, book yourself into a hotel or enjoy cell phone-free times. Anything that relaxes both of you will make your sex better (and more frequent) in the long run.

3rd tip to make a woman hot: Avoid unnecessary discussions

Heated discussions do not create a sexy atmosphere. If you engage in a repartee with your partner about politics and insist on your point of view, you can’t assume that your sweetheart will want to get into bed with you in the near future (unless she’s into sex after the argument). Hamony is the best starting point for sex: you won’t break a bone if you agree with your partner’s arguments — at least for this moment. It proves to her that you listen to her, respect her opinion and respond to her. The nice side effect: The concession leads to the fact that the beloved will soon seek your proximity. Don’t think so? Give it a try — it can only make your relationship better in any case.

4th tip to make a woman hot: Worship her body as a great erogenous zone.

Don’t worry, it is not meant that you should slide on your knees in front of your beloved. You can use more subtle means to show her that you find her body and the way she moves erotic. Even intense eye contact is enough to signal that your attention is only on her at this moment. Smile at her, caress her favorite parts: Caress the hollow above her collarbone, circle her belly button or kiss the bridge of her nose. Give her a gentle pat on the butt or tell her that the new dress looks great on her. Every woman likes to hear compliments and is more eager to show off later, to reap beautiful words and touches again. It makes a woman voluptuous when you feel that her partner is into her appearance.

5th tip to make a woman hot: Always respond positively to her attempts at seduction

She snuggles up to you, flirts with your curves and whispers smut in your ear? If you want your partner to make the first move toward sex more often, don’t dismiss her in her infrequent attempts at seduction — even if she’s only half-hearted about it. For many women, taking the initiative is an overcoming task anyway. Most are not used to being rejected when it comes to sex. So if you let her attempts go nowhere, she will be irritated and take your reaction in stride. Just as bad are comments you make to explain how she should start the seduction more successfully. The more often you react to advances in this way, the less often she will take the initiative — the principle of classical conditioning. Show her that you find her come-ons extremely sexy by letting her seduce you with pleasure. Are you too tired to have sex? Then still respond positively with kisses and words to your seduction attempts and explain to her that you would only love to have sex with her but are currently unable. Ask her to wait for you. She will understand — and make another attempt.

6th tip to make a woman hot: Give priority to her desire

The prerequisite for your partner to want more sex is that she enjoys it. After all, what gives you pleasure, you want to experience again and again. To ensure her enjoyment, be generous during sex. Concentrate on fulfilling your partner’s desires instead of focusing only on your own pleasure. Pamper your beloved and encourage her to show how she would prefer to be caressed. If you feel that she is having a hard time opening up in bed, gently steer the conversation outside of the bedroom. She should feel that she can trust you and that experiments — without any pressure to perform — are possible with you. Give her the opportunity to let herself go — even if you don’t fully get your money’s worth yourself. Because in the long run, you will benefit from it. Positive sexual experiences lead to her wanting to experience them more often.

Conclusion: Your partner wants sex just as often as you do — but says it less often. If you can make her feel free to express her wishes and not be afraid of rejection, you will be rewarded with more sex. When lovemaking becomes a regular part of your loved one’s life, it’s easier for her to take the initiative. Sex leads to more sex!

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