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What Mistakes Make Women in Bed And How to Avoid Them

Read on to discover what he doesn't like to do when you're in the bedroom.

By Viorel SecareanuPublished 6 months ago 3 min read
What Mistakes Make Women in Bed And How to Avoid Them
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You use your nails too much

Without a doubt, you'll get him out of your mind the moment you lightly scratch his back. However, that saying: "everything must be done in moderation." Rest assured that she won't feel too well if you use her nails too often or if she feels blood on her back.

You use your teeth when you give him oral sex

It's not very pleasant to feel scratched/bitten in that area. Remember that the penis, especially the head, is a very sensitive area. That means you can hurt him very easily if you're careless. The penis is a very complex organ, so it's very easy to turn a pleasant bout of oral sex into a painful experience.

You expect him to be in the mood for sex all the time

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Just like with ladies, men are sometimes far too moody to be in the mood for sex. Don't assume that he has to be on duty all the time just because he likes to lure you into the bedroom. So don't panic too much if sometimes he's too tired or sad to make you crazy in bed.

You wait for him to take the initiative every time

Although there is nothing more exciting than a man who knows when to take the reins, in many cases he also wants you to make indecent propositions. For a more harmonious married life, try to be the one who leads him in the bedroom. As a bonus, you could try to prove to him that you know what men want in bed.

You are silent while having sex

Maybe the neighbors won't appreciate this detail too much, but it is advisable to show him how well he knows how to do his job by making sexy sounds. You don't have to overdo it. Just enough to show him that he's doing the right thing because a rock that doesn't react in any way kills the pleasure of intercourse almost instantly.

You expect him to read your mind

Of course, there are many things the human brain can do, but reading another person's mind is not one of them. Instead of blaming him later that what he did in bed was not to your liking, it is better to talk to him beforehand about what you like and what you don't like in the bedroom. Moreover, you could discuss your sexual fantasies to spice up your sex life a bit.

Don't give him oral sex

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There are many people in the world who are disgusted by the idea of ​​oral sex. However, if he performs every time you have sex, you might want to return the favor. If you're not comfortable with the idea, then you shouldn't openly discuss it, but don't leave it on hold.

You talk during sex

Probably nothing is more humiliating for a man than a partner who does not refrain from talking during sex. Even if the things you want to say to him are important, put yourself in his shoes for a second. The fact that you remembered that the bank installment is due or that the warranty at the exchange expires will give him the impression that anything is more exciting than what you do in bed.

You stimulate his anus or prostate during sex without asking him

It may seem like a good idea at the moment, but keep in mind that most men feel uncomfortable being touched in those places without permission. That's why it would be good to talk about these things before you take the initiative.

Sex is a participatory activity and not one that involves putting the pleasure of one partner above the other. As always, honest dialogue is the only way to get rid of all the unpleasantness.

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About the Creator

Viorel Secareanu

I share thoughts on photography and life, mostly lessons learned around things I’ve been dealing with the last few years, managing time, finding focus, and being happy.

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