The difference between a sugar daddy and daddy Dom

I think with the explosion of sugar babies in the kink community there's some confusion by this naïve young people. But through my own experience in both types of dynamics and my knowledge of both I will try to educate you on the difference.

Most of you will do whatever you want regardless of what I say. Some of you will try to say that I'm wrong or that I don't know what I'm talking about. I have almost 10 years in both sugar about BDSM. I know a lot of you may not like what I have to say but it's the truth and it's also what needs to be said. Having said all that, I am only saying this to keep you from chasing good people away, doing something illegal and maybe getting in trouble. So, let's get started.

First things first, Daddy Dom is a part of a kink and Sugar is not a kink. Where I think the confusion lies is the difference between money kink and sugar. Yes, there are sugar dynamics that include kink, but sugar is not a kink. The difference between sugar and a money kink is financial subs get sexual gratification from handing over their money or control over their money to their Doms. This may be true to some daddies but not all. The majority of daddies are vanilla and basically looking for a relationship that they pay for. Nowadays the sugar daddies are paying for things beyond what sugar really is. Sugar is a relationship you pay for, but it has turned into sex worker/ cam girl type stuff.

Secondly for most of the sugar daddies and sugar babies it's about money and what they can get out of the dynamic. The sugar daddy is wanting something (attention, dates to events, Etc.) and the sugar baby is wanting money and finical help. With Daddy Doms it could be about what they want but it's also about what they can do for their partners. Daddy Doms are into nurturing and are very caring.

I think I need to make this really clear; a daddy Doms will never pay you unless they are a sugar daddy or there's a pro sub situation. The sugar daddy type dynamic needs to be negotiated. Both parties have to agree upon things that happen in the dynamic. Daddy Doms and Doms in general aren't into paying for a sub. This leads into the third point.

There are pro subs, but it is separate, and the Dom doesn't have constant contact or a relationship with the pro sub. Usually the Dom and pro sub set up a scene then the scene happens and the sub gets paid and then they part ways. Some subs don't want a relationship and that's fine. There's a lot of pros out there which is different from financial Domination. Pros get paid for scenes and what they do. Financial Doms work with people who liked to hand over money or control of their money over.

Now it is 100% absolutely illegal to do sexual acts outside of porn, only fans, and stripping for any kind of gifts, money and other compensation. Please check your laws if you live outside of the United States. Some laws maybe worded crazy but there's rules and laws against certain types of sex work. Plus, if you have sex for gifts, money and other such gains that's not sugar that's prostitution. A lot of people will argue with me but that is the legal definition.

I hope this helps. I think that I will do more articles like this.