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Simple Anal Sex Tips for Men

Enhance your experience with these practical anal sex tips for men.

By Bill ShaffirPublished 6 years ago 3 min read
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Anal sex, is everybody really doing it? Well, according to the Kinsey institute and their recent national sexual health survey, roughly half of all men and women have attempted anal sex. So, while it isn't everybody, it is a pretty significant portion of the general populous.

There are plenty of anal sex tips for men out there, but which ones do you really need to heed if you want the big night to go smoothly? As a guy, the first thing you're going to want to do before anything else is gauge your partner's level of interest. This should go without saying, but if she says no, don't bug her about it.

With just a little bit of preparation, the event can be much more enjoyable for you both. Use these anal sex tips for men (especially if it's your first time), and who knows, you might even get a second go at it.

Test the Waters

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OK, so you both agreed to try anal sex the next time you get intimate, but that doesn't mean you just dive right in without testing the water a bit. Try a finger or two, gently at first. Unless he or she is an old pro, having something shoved up your ass might be jarring, so give them a minute to get accustomed to the sensation.

If you're both really green, you could even try spreading the anal play out over the course of a few nights. You can build each other up and gain more experience, as it will only make the sex better — it's underrated when it comes to anal sex tips for men. Also, be sure to try various positions so you can find ones that are most comfortable for you both.

Lube

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Shocking as it may seem, many people try anal sex without incorporating any lubricants — seriously. To make sure everything goes smoothly, try using a water or silicone based lubricant to reduce pain and chafing — for the both of you.

This is one of the easier anal sex tips for men, as it just requires a few dollars and a trip to the drug store. Greasing the tracks a bit will also reduce some of the timidness you might be feeling, as you're much less likely to hurt your partner this way.

And don't be embarrassed when buying your lube, it isn't nearly as taboo as it once was — thankfully!

Condoms

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Why do I need to put on a condom if I'm only putting it in the butt? While you obviously can't get pregnant, it could save you from a potentially messy accident — rare but totally possible.

In addition, HPV can be transmitted during anal sex, as can a host of other infections including HIV, herpes, and gonorrhea — all the classics, really. And because HPV testing is not widely available to men, most men have no idea if they have it or not, so best to proceed with some caution. As far as anal sex tips for men, this one is a no-brainer.

It's Not Porn

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Guys, take it easy with all that aggressive thrusting — this ain't porn. Anal porn is one of the most sought after videos on any porn website, so it makes sense most guys would have no idea how to do it correctly.

Do you think you can walk into Yankee Stadium and hit a 100 mph fastball? Didn't think so. So, what makes you think you can treat your partner like you're both getting paid?

Take it easy, go slow, and enjoy yourself. If it doesn't feel good, neither of you are ever going to want to try it again. Don't get yourself all worked up in a bad way — this is supposed to be fun. Use these anal sex tips for men and get all the good stuff that can come along with it and none of the pain.

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Bill Shaffir

Lover of gangster films and worried about the future of artificial intelligence.

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