How To Loose Your Virginity

Here are some tips that you can use to help you prepare to loose your virginity when the time is right.

These are from my personal experiences, so don’t take any offense to it.

Also if you have any feedback or new story ideas, I would love to hear it! I am all for constructive criticism, but make sure to keep it constructive.

Loosing your virginity is special, so do it how you want; I’m just here to help the people out there who don’t know what to do, and want help. If you finish the story and still have questions, feel free to ask. I am probably not the best, or most factual place to get sex advice, but I am here to help.

#1. CHOOSE THE RIGHT PERSON:

If you are like I was, I used to be REALLY bad at flirting. I mean REALLY bad. Over time I have learned new techniques and new ways of subtlety showing attraction without scaring them away, but sometimes it can be really hard. If you are planning on swiping your V-Card, you have to make sure you choose the right person. Do not just choose some sketchy person that you met at the Walmart checkout, choose someone that you actually have a connection / attraction to.

#2. DO NOT RUSH:

If you still have your virginity, good for you! But if you feel like the time is right, find another person that feels the same way. A lot of people are in a rush to loose their V-Card. Don’t be! It is a great thing if you can stand tall and say that you are a virgin. It shows that you not only have self respect, but also self worth.

#3. DO NOT PRESSURE THE OTHER PERSON:

If you are ready but your partner is not, DO NOT RUSH THEM. This will cause tension in the relationship that causes the other person to not feel comfortable when they are around you. It may even lead to a break up. Instead, you should talk about your feelings, and set boundaries so that everybody feels comfortable, and safe in the relationship. (Something to keep in mind is that everyone is different. Everyone likes different things, and has different opinions. We should always be aware of what is happening around us. Just because you want it, doesn’t mean that the other person wants it too.)

#4. TAKE YOUR TIME:

Loosing your virginity is usually a big part of your life; not only your life, but your partner(s) life too! Don’t try to rush or fake it. Let it overwhelm you. Don’t make it a task, make it a blessing. You want to be able to feel it in every part of your body! Spend time feeling each other and exploring each other's bodies.

#5. TRY NEW THINGS:

Once you guys are comfortable, don’t be afraid to try new things; see what you like. It’s not a bad thing to ask for specific requests. And if your partner asks you to do something that you’re not quite comfortable with, tell them. Try new things, bring out new sensations, but keep it healthy. When trying new things, still be cautious; be cautious of things that might get you / your partner injured, and be cautious of things that you / your partner might not be comfortable with. Stay safe, but have fun!

#6. BE SAFE:

If you are not ready for a kid, use protection. There are condoms, birth-con trol pills, and ”the morning after” pills. If there is a female in the group, She should take birth-control; even if a condom is present. There is still a possibility of semen getting through the condom. Only use a plan-b pill, or “the morning after” pill, if 100% necessary.

#7. LISTEN TO MUSIC:

From my experience, the only way to make sex not awkward, and make it more romantic, is to play some sort of music. In my experience, low tune, slow music is the best. It allowed time to just be in the moment, and really be with each other.