Going to a sex club alone as a single lady? Here’s what you should know

Although sex clubs seem super safe, when you go there as a couple, the plot may twist when you are there on your own, as a single lady.

Not all sex clubs can ensure a safe and pleasant experience for women. Especially when we are not accompanied.

You should be mindful about the diversity of people that may be present at the sex club. Consider the fact that not everybody may have a respectful mindset and understand the need to ask for consent before approaching you or even touching you.

To avoid an unpleasant experience and feel safe, choose the venue carefully before going.

Some sex clubs have the reputation for having lousy rules or not respecting their own rules to attract more visitors. Especially more male visitors. Believe me, you don’t want to be in a sex party where most people went because the entry fee is lower than the services of a professional sex worker.

Here is a few things that you should watch out for:

1. Sex club’s reputation

Research as much information as possible on the internet. If you can find any reviews, read them all. Avoid going to clubs that don’t have any online presence. Especially avoid the clubs that are located in remote and unpopulated areas, unless the sex club is of impeccable reputation.

2. Rules

Reputable sex clubs have a long set of strict rules. Study the sex club’s website and read their rules. This will give you an impression about what to expect at the club. Note however that rules are not always respected in reality and what looks great on paper may not necessarily be implemented.

3. Expected male/female ratio

This is the million dollar question when choosing a sex club - what will the male/female ratio look like?

You can get an idea about it by researching the club’s eligibility requirements. Some clubs only allow couples, while others open their doors to single ladies and even single men.

If the entry fee for single men is way too affordable, chances are high that you’re gonna be surrounded by a crowd of horny men. Although it may sound tempting, you should avoid going to such events, for your own safety.

4. Membership requirements

Pick a club that requires membership registration and has some pre-authorization procedure for you to get in. Avoid clubs where people can just walk in without registration. This way you will know that the club collects at least some information about their visitors.

5. Security Staff

Some sex clubs have security staff in their premises and by security I don’t only mean bouncers. It’s best if you clarify at the club who is in charge of safety and avoid staying in clubs that don’t have any security staff in place.

6. Alcohol consumption

Most sex clubs have bars and some of them even offer free food and alcohol. Needless to say that you should pay extra attention to safety in such case.

7. Facilities

Mind checking that the club has dressing rooms with lockers and showers. Not all sex clubs have lockers, while they also have no phone policies. Some clubs only accept cash payments for entry fee and at the bar.

Even if all the above criteria are perfectly met, remember to be mindful about your safety at all times.

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You may find helpful my sex club guidelines where I list the criteria you can apply when choosing the right place to have some kinky fun.

I also publish stories and reviews of different sex clubs which you may also find useful.