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Find Out How You Can Be More Attractive When You Have Sex!

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By Daisy ThunderstrikePublished 2 years ago 5 min read
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Find Out How You Can Be More Attractive When You Have Sex!
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80% of women think twice about whether or not to start a love affair just because they don't have complete confidence in their physical appearance. The result is the same: they miss an exciting and relaxing moment with their partners!

Love is something pleasant and spontaneous, not something programmed or meant to embarrass you!

How does a woman who does not trust her physical appearance behave in bed?

Although you do not want to be among the women who do not want a man's passion because they are not satisfied with their physical appearance, it is still good to know what patterns or situations to run away from.

So here's a little bit of misconduct for a woman when it comes to bedroom action:

  • quickly turns off the light or decreases its intensity and gets under the blanket before the boyfriend realizes what is happening;
  • he likes to make love with the light off;
  • worries about every detail and can arrange himself inch by inch before a love match;
  • she doesn't know how to accept compliments about her body, and if she accepts them, she doesn't trust that her partner was sincere;
  • she is convinced that exactly that part of the body that displeases her is more exposed while making love;
  • She is never fully satisfied with what she looks like in intimate moments.

 STOP! Find out that very skinny girls suffer from decreased libido, suffer from hormonal disorders, and other problems such as hair loss and fragile bones. You certainly don't want that!

And it seems that no matter how many times your boyfriend tells you that he loves your shapes, you are stubborn to continue with self-criticism. That's how we came up with the idea to offer you concrete advice, only good to implement in bed, at night. Try the 6 safe methods to make you feel more attractive when you start the action!

1. Use the right light!

Your first thought maybe that you better hide your flaws in the dark, but in fact, the truth is that diffused light makes you stand out much better and turns you into an exciting apparition.

Your boyfriend needs to feel you and see that you like what is happening, so candles or diffused lights are the perfect balance between a clear image and masking imperfections.

Be sure that scented candles, diffused or lightly colored lights will help you better understand what you like and dislike, what excites you, what your erogenous zones are. Otherwise, how could you enjoy a full love game?

 2. Leave something to yourself!

Although we all need to feel good in our skin, you may also encounter moments of vulnerability in which complete emptiness prevents you from enjoying love.

So, keeping a piece of clothing can add a little mystery and can be auspicious, but as long as it doesn't stop you from being aware of the strengths of your own body.

Making love does not mean that you have to give up clothes completely, on the contrary, you risk developing an unpleasant automatism if you always undress completely.

Sometimes it's even more exciting if you don't give up an item of clothing. Try to stay with your shirt or skirt on and you will see how it will make you go crazy.

3. Buy provocative underwear for your body!

Instead of flipping through your boxer shorts or your boyfriend's briefs, invest in some very provocative underwear.

It's impossible not to look fabulous dressed like that! I'm just as sure that once you try on such underwear (with a garter belt if possible), some of your myths will disappear!

You can be sure that you will find the right underwear for you so that you look as good as possible while hiding the small imperfections.

Choose a push-up bra for round breasts, a minimizer bra if your breast size is complex, garter belt panties for an erotic accent …

4. Remember that love is one of the exercises for losing weight!

 Only if you have serious weight problems should you start an attack. Otherwise, you don't need to change anything in your body to enjoy a satisfying intimate life.

The first step to a perfect married life is to feel good in your skin, to understand that your boyfriend likes you and chose you primarily for how you make him feel with you.

At the same time, for your satisfaction, you are allowed and maybe even have to exercise regularly, go to the gym and eat healthily.

Exercise is great for your intimate life: it intensifies blood circulation to the genitals and positively influences the release of hormones, especially serotonin - the hormone of happiness.

5. Don't apologize for the small flaws!

When you are insecure about your physical appearance, the first impulse is to apologize somehow, even resorting to self-irony and humor to warn your partner as if he might see a stretch mark there, an untangled hair on the other side. ….

It's the biggest mistake you can make in bed! If you resort to such a tactic, rest assured that any pleasure will perish.

The conclusion? Adopt a positive attitude towards your body, turn even the small imperfections into qualities, if you want your lover to have a positive attitude towards the pleasure in the couple.

Tips for the end

We all want to be goddesses of love, but sometimes we get stuck in our insecurity. Even if you want to look perfect in intimate moments, the most important thing is not to forget that the real connection between you and your partner is not only physical but more mental and spiritual.

Focus on sensations, stimuli, and feelings and you will quickly realize that sex can be extremely pleasurable regardless of the size of the clothes.

Do not forget! You are your fiercest critic! A love match never takes place like in the movies, and your confidence is more beautiful than your body!

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