Let’s Face It! It Is Frustrating for a Man Not to Be Able to Satisfy His Partner.

Just the idea that he can't bring her to orgasm scares him quite a lot and every time a love match turns out below expectations, he takes it personally. He feels less manly and may even be afraid that he will be abandoned.

And to cover men, a recent study found that only 25% of women reach orgasm after a normal (vaginal) love affair, and 40% of women are not fond of this type of love alone.

However, there are only statistics and good news to get to work and invite your partner to learn to do real cunnilingus! Why? Because 81% of women reach orgasm through this type of stimulation.

First of all, find out that the name cunnilingus comes from Latin and means "licking the vulva". Therefore, the name and the practice itself are old.

For a woman, a cunnilingus can be a special intimate gift. It will make her feel loved, wanted, admired and will give her confidence in herself. And most importantly, she will have an orgasm!

Many women prefer cunnilingus over a penetrating love affair, because the pleasure is much greater and because, unfortunately, for many of them it is the only way to orgasm.

Studies show that 80% of young couples and 50% of adult couples practice oral sex with each other.

 Do all women like to be cunnilingus?

Not all women, that's right. Some women don't like it, no matter how hard their partners try. In this case, a little frustrated, the men ask themselves: am I clumsy, don't do the right thing, or don't like it, whatever I do? The answer: both options.

Some women just don't like it, but they love other intimate practices, without the partner having any guilt for it. And there's nothing wrong with not liking it, it's just … you're missing out on some fun!

It is wrong when a woman does not like it. She feels insecure. She does not like her own body because she is embarrassed to think about what taste and smell the intimate area has and what her partner might think at that moment.

Any man who enjoys an intimate life with a timid woman must communicate openly with her!

It's time to dump her and move on. So, my dear men, good luck and good luck!

First of all, take care of her!

Take care of her … your partner and … your partner's intimate area! It does not penetrate quickly and easily, like an intruder, because you will do nothing but disturb it.

You probably think that you feel great when he touches your penis and that's how she should feel. Wrong!

Indeed, the clitoris and glans penis have a similar shape and function, but there are many differences. The clitoris alone has 8,000 nerve endings, 2 times the size of the entire penis.

Another difference is that the female organ of pleasure is, for the most part, inner and not outer like yours, so the sensitivity is much higher.

When the partner is not aroused, the clitoris head is slightly exposed.

Instead, when it reaches a high degree of arousal, the tissues are irrigated with blood and the clitoris has an erection: the entire clitoris comes out from under the soft tissue that covers it in a "neutral state". At this point, the vagina is usually lubricated.

Now, driven by crazy lusts, you could initiate normal love, through penetration, or … you could do it the way she wants! And that means playing on a field full of pleasure!

Passionate kisses all over the body, light and exciting bites, and everything your imagination can offer for a "tailor-made" stimulation of the clitoris and vaginal area.

Positions, tactics, and techniques…

Practically, almost any position can be good for an oral love game, and the locations can also be varied: in the pool, in the bathtub, in the shower, on the table, with the partner lying on his back, or standing, with his legs spread.

Remember that in women, reaching orgasm through oral sex takes longer than in men. In this sense, you must both choose a position as comfortable as possible.

She must be in a position that allows her to stretch her legs, to keep them stretched, while both her back and head have a relaxed and relaxing position for a long time.

You must also have a comfortable position, but above all, to give you the best possible access to your partner's genital area.

The moment of pleasure … step by step

Pay attention to everything you do, do not rush, play tenderly, and communicate with your partner all this time.

Extremely important for both of us, at any time, but especially in the case of position 69, is intimate hygiene! It would be best to take a shower together first. It can be the perfect prelude!

Let the bodies touch and be the ones to gently wash the partner's genital area. It will only be a warning of what you are capable of after!

When you get to bed, continue with the kisses and caresses, slowly descending to the point of interest. Press it lightly or squeeze it hard, to feel how excited you are and to understand that it will be brought to the heights of pleasure other than with the help of the penis.

Lay it on its back, spread its legs, and get used to the area where you will "work" with your fingers, lips, and tongue.

Kiss her everywhere, wherever you know she likes it, bite her breasts lightly, kisses her on the abdomen and then play with her clit. Focus on the clitoris, because it gives you maximum pleasure. You can put your feet on your shoulders.

Next, lick or kiss her lips, take a look at them from time to time, and when you feel that she is pushing you lightly, it means that you are doing great. Now that she is relaxed and eager to see what you have to offer, use not only your lips and tongue but also your fingers.

Loosen the labia majora, then the labia minora, and gently massage the area between the clitoris and the entrance to the vagina with your finger.

You will go crazy with pleasure if you do not enter the vagina immediately but will continue to explore. However, it didn't take long for her to feel dizzy with the rotating movements of the tip of her tongue as she entered the vagina, then with a finger or two.

You can insert the tongue as deep as you want or you can, observing its reaction.

Want a guaranteed trick? When your partner is very aroused and therefore your clitoris is fully exposed, you can try to suck it lightly with your lips and the tip of your tongue, then release it after a few seconds.

You can continue to play with your fingers, then return to your clitoris. I assure you, she will have an orgasm!

After orgasm, you can continue the game for a while, until she shows you that it is enough. You just don't want to be frustrated if you cannot get the right pitch so invest in a good capo.

Do Not Forget!

Oral stimulation can be the perfect prelude to normal love or any other practice you enjoy. However, it may be the only practice in the bedroom that you need for orgasm. Whatever you choose, it is best to avoid the mistakes that many men make during cunnilingus.

You don't have an ice cream in front of you, which you can lick anyway, but a sensitive area, with over 10,000 nerve endings.

Be careful what and how you caress. If you do not know what to do or do not want to do this, it would be better to stop, otherwise, you will both experience a feeling of frustration.

When you feel that it is close to orgasm, it does not change the rhythm, it does not slow down but on the contrary, it accelerates the movements a little but tenderly.

And something else! She doesn't want a robot to have oral sex, but rather her 100% involved boyfriend, who likes what she does. So, show her and tell her that you enjoy it too. He will greatly appreciate your gesture and will probably reward you as well!