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Don't You Want To Have Anal Sex Because of The Myths?

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By Sunshine JanePublished 2 years ago 4 min read
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Don't You Want To Have Anal Sex Because of The Myths?
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Statistics show that one in four women has experienced anal sex at least once.

However, the reluctance with which this subject is approached and treated, makes anal sex an experience that although many practices it, very few come to recognize and see as a normal aspect of married life, with which they have no what a shame.

This misguided and biased perception of anal sex is the result of the spread and spread of several myths, which have become significantly entrenched, especially in women's perceptions.

If you are curious to experience anal sex but have some doubts or fears about this particular step in your intimate life, the information provided by Diva Hair will help you make a decision.

Find out what the myths about anal sex are and how much truth they contain!

1. Anal sex is "dirty"

First of all, it should be mentioned that the anus, like the other organs of the body, is just as clean, as long as you take care to wash daily and use the toilet properly.

As for the unpleasant situations that may occur during the actual act, they can be avoided if you have a balanced intestinal transit, do not suffer from constipation, and do not have any other problems of this kind.

However, keep in mind that although the anus area is clean, there are specific bacteria inside that can cause infections if your partner does not change the condom before penetrating the vagina.

 2. Anal sex causes incontinence, hemorrhoids, anal fissures

It is true that physiologically the anus is not designed for penetration, but the idea that anal sex could cause anal fissures is a simple myth, born of lack of information.

To understand that anal sex can't hurt you from this point of view, you need to know that the muscles that make up the anus area are elastic enough to accept the diameter of a penis without any problems.

In addition, both the outside and the inside have many nerve endings, which stimulate you to give pleasure. To avoid any discomfort and pain it is recommended to use a lubricant.

3. Anal sex is painful

Another false myth, generally associated with the above.

As long as the sexual intercourse takes place with the consent of both partners, you are relaxed and use lubricant, because the anal area is not naturally lubricated, anal sex can be a pleasant experience, which you may want to try again.

There is, however, one thing you need to pay attention to, especially your partner.

To prevent any discomfort or pain, care must be taken not to impose an alert rhythm, not to penetrate too deeply, and not to make sudden gestures, which can cause injuries, given that the tissues in this area are very sensitive and richly vascularized.

4. HIV and other STDs are transmitted through anal sex

As with vaginal penetration, sexually transmitted diseases only occur if one of the partners is a carrier and does not use a condom.

Anal sex is nothing special from this point of view, so you cannot be at risk of getting sick just because you are anal and not vaginal.

However, if you have hemorrhoids or other wounds on the rectal tissue, it is not recommended to have anal sex, because the bacteria in the anus that enter the body can cause infections.

5. My friend will disrespect me

You can't force your boyfriend to have anal sex, so I don't see how this could bother him.

Communicate, share ideas, desires, fantasies, and do not hide behind prejudices. If you're curious to try anal sex, I'm sure your boyfriend won't back down either.

It is natural to want to experience different intimate moments if you love your partner and feel that you want to do this, and be sure that he thinks the same. In this sense, it is recommended to alternate anal sex with vaginal penetration or oral sex, if it pleases you so that you do not feel that your intimate moments are purely physical and based only on pleasure.

You are not obliged to continue having anal sex if the first experience was unpleasant or did not make you feel at ease.

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