Do You Have A Inferiority Complex in Bed?

Every couple represents a living and complex system at the same time, which is guided by their laws according to the personality and desires of those who form it.

Unfortunately, however, it does not simply coexist, being subjected to forces that can bind it or, on the contrary, can break it down, destabilize it. This fight between opposing forces is in fact what drives the couple forward, the partners must know how to keep their balance.

But referring to complexes, both women and men always have dissatisfaction with the way they look. Is it good or bad to have complexes? Sometimes it's good because it creates motivation.

Men have to fight with the image of manhood, and women with the model of the podium. There is a myth that the result of a sex game depends on the performance of the man or if it does not work, then the woman is cold.

Cellulite creates sexual inhibition

Few of us are satisfied with our body: one does not like the nose, another the body, another the eyes, another the breasts. In the first place at the top of our "pain" is cellulite, which makes us have an inhibitory attitude towards our partner: we will have sex only with the light off, we no longer allow them to touch certain areas.

Breasts, whether large or small, create a whole host of complexes. Women who have a problem like this will avoid certain positions in bed, for fear of not noticing the defect. Excess weight and a shapeless body lead to an increase in distrust and insecurity in one's femininity. All this condition only frustrates the man with what he wants.

As long as he wants to be with you and you "create complexes", he will get confused, because he is supposed to like you the way you are.

Will she leave me for a more attractive woman?

Often, however, complexes tend to be exaggerated, which results in inhibition in moments of tenderness, and the woman will always ask herself, "What does she think of me?", "Do I look right?" Are you leaving for a more attractive woman? " After all, our complexes and inhibitions correspond to the fear of not being abandoned, the fear of abandonment. Because of the education we receive, the lack of self-confidence, prejudice, or principles, we end up creating our prisons.

Poor self-image, low respect for one's powers, extreme education does nothing but increase our complexes. Nobody is perfect! Each has a smaller or larger complex. But in a relationship where the two partners trust each other, the complexes should be reduced. Not infrequently these frustrations, dissatisfactions lead to somatizations, such as migraines, which never end, back pain due to dissatisfaction with libido.

Goodbye frustration

• Assure your partner that you like him/her as he or she is.

• Many men do not do cosmetic assessments during sex.

• Help him/her relax, show him/her that you don't mind the small flaws he/she has or just attributes.

• If the relationship is long-lasting, help each other gain confidence. Try to feel good about yourself - insecurity destroys passion.

• Be persevering - work with negative thoughts and try to transform them. If one of you feels bad and not only conveys but also tells you, everything will be forced.

• Always be in shape - flexible, not only physically, but also mentally. Don't expect your partner to know your thoughts to know what you like if you don't tell him. Communication is more than essential.

• Experiment, get informed, read, plan, try new things, and don't let the monotony ruin your relationship.

• Sex should not become a tense moment or something written in your weekly schedule that needs to be fulfilled.

Trust yourself!

If you are a complex person, not only your sex life will suffer. Develop your self-confidence, and in your relationship, give credit to your partner and end up not only loving him, but first loving yourself, and in this way, any existing or imagined complex will diminish its effects. on your life.