Sex is a huge part of all of our lives anyway we look at it. Whether we are getting it (or not getting it), we all think about sex an absurd amount. But not all of us are doing it right. Oh, I know, we THINK we are. Like Mel Brooks once said: "Sex is like pizza. Even when it's done bad, it's still pretty good." And all jokes aside, we all can add a little more to our sexual resume. So take a look at these hacks for the bedroom!
When you're short on money, it can feel like you're limited. There are only so many bars you can hop around to on the weekends with your friends, and you can't exactly bring home all of those high-waisted jeans you've recently become obsessed with. I should know, because I've been there before, many, many times. One thing you shouldn't have to worry about your finances affecting, though, is your sex life.
The fact is, most people overthink sex. There seems to be this popular notion out there that we need to have everything just right -- the right toys, the right mood, the right music -- just to get a little nooky. In fact, the whole thing could be greatly simplified with just a little creativity and ingenuity. Trust us.
It's just sex! With that in mind, we trolled the Internet for the best sex tricks that don't require a major investment of time or money. We found 10 sex hacks so hot, we know EXACTLY what our readers will be doing tonight. And that's the idea.
5 Sex Hacks to Try Tonight
.Locking Door Without a Lock
If it opens inward, stick a door jam under the door so it can't be opened. It's the perfect solution for parents who haven't had time (or the desire) to buy a lock for the door. Perfect in a pinch!
.Sex Without Sex
It's called femoral sex and it's not QUITE sex, but it's sexy indeed and perfect for those times you don't feel like making a mess inside you that's hard to clean. Simply lube between your thighs and let him slide between them. He'll be happy, indeed.
.Text Sexy Photos From Upstairs
We know, we know. Sexting is bad news. But it's oh-so-delicious. If you want to get your man up and ready, text him from upstairs to let him know what he's missing.
.Drink More Water
Feeling dry down there? It's a common problem for breastfeeding moms and we've all been there. Do yourself a massive favor and start guzzling H2O. It's free and there's no better lube on the market.
For all the women who HATE socks in bed, this is for you: It turns out socks improve your orgasm! Who knew?! Apparently one of the major deterrents to orgasm is whether or not you are cold, so when you warm the feet, you warm the body. Boom! Blast off! Pretty nice if that's all it takes.
.Use Coconut Oil
Is there anything coconut oil CAN'T do?? It makes a good lube in a pinch. If you have some around, just rub it on him -- bonus, it makes blow jobs that much tastier!
. Experiment With Femoral Sex
Never heard of femoral sex? It was news to me too. It's essentially sex without vaginal penetration, and it's done when a man thrusts his penis in between closed thighs. Say the two of you ran out of condoms, or you've yet to get your hands on your next round of birth control, yet you still want to play it safe. Give this alternative a shot. You may come to love it.
. Use Pillows & Blankets As Props
Toss a cushion underneath your hips mid-act, and be blown away at how much difference a few inches can make in finding the right angle. Your partner will love the elevation too. Feel free to experiment with similar items in any other position as well. Another great tip: lean your chest on a pillow when you're on hands and knees and your sweetheart is behind you. The orgasm is said to be extra delicious.
. Learn About Pressure Points
Thankfully, Google is still free to use. It is also well-equipped with lots of information about which points, when stimulated, can seriously enhance your orgasmic experiences. Find out where on your own body is super sensitive, and if you're working with a partner, do some experimenting on them too.
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