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What do you think is the most important thing about being together as a family?

What matters most to a family

By Nona LunemannPublished 2 years ago 6 min read
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What do you think is the most important thing about being together as a family?
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What is the most important thing in a family?

When you live in this world, what you long for most is home, what you crave most is home, what you can't let go of is home, and what you need to cherish most is home.

A family together, with warm light, a simple dinner, listening to parents' chatter, watching children study, simple family life, simple happiness.

What could be more important than a family living in harmony?

The family may not be rich, but it cannot be hurtful. Take away the hurtful words that come out of your mouth, no matter how close you are, you are not the one who can be free to indulge in any kind of rage.

It is normal to have conflicts and disputes when you stay together for a long time, but if you take a step back, you can make the big things go away.

The writer Sancho once said: "Home, for everyone, is a fountain of joy! Even a slave who has a home does not feel overly miserable.

Don't let the source of joy become "a pool of stagnant water", and don't let the longed-for home become a "devil's cave" to be avoided.

Listen to your family. Everyone wants to be understood, so take a moment to listen to what they are saying.

Look for opportunities to communicate and resolve problems and conflicts promptly, so that misunderstandings do not become knots that cannot be resolved.

Give your family more expressions of love, such as a crisp "good morning" in the morning or a warm hug in the evening.

Your family is not only your family but also your partner in life, your number one supporter, your comfort when you are lonely, and your constant companion on the road to growth.

When you have a family that understands, tolerates, and supports each other, what difficulties can you not overcome? What demons can't be beaten?

Take good care of it, everyone does their part, and the family will flourish.

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What is the most important thing in a lifetime?

Life is not too long, and life is not too short.

From the moment we are born as babies, we have a vision of what we want to do with our lives.

One step at a time, one growth at a time, and little by little we live into the present moment.

Some people are successful and have worked hard to achieve what they want.

Some people are happily married and have children who are as happy as a flower in full bloom.

Some people live a simple life, with a homely nagging but warm sweetness hidden in the ordinary atmosphere of fireworks.

Some people have risen to the top of the money ladder but have lost the people they love most; others have fallen hard in life and stumbled to get up.

Some people are hesitant, but cannot leave their laziness behind to work hard; some hesitate, constantly swinging between family and career.

Some are in high buildings, others in deep ditches, some shine brightly, and others are covered in rust.

There are millions of lives in the world, but only what you experience at the moment truly belongs to you.

What is the most important thing in a person's life? The most important thing is to be true and open.

Be true to your life and look down on all the glory and shame equally, there is no perfect person and no perfect life in this world.

Don't envy others' goodness, and don't despise others' badness. Behind everyone's back, there is a painful but untold story.

No one knows how hard it is to keep a clean heart in a chaotic world.

Only one understands how much one has to give to fight the world, reconcile with one's past self, and fight the demons and monsters along the way.

In this life, it is enough to live an honest life, without pretense or pretension, and to be true to oneself.

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What is the most important thing about a person?

What kind of person do you want to be?

Since the beginning of the independence of thought, we have been pondering this question, thinking, revising, experiencing, and feeling as we go along.

Until later we would find that being a person is ultimately the most important thing in terms of character.

People can be stupid, poor, shrewd, worldly, and ugly, but they must never lose the most basic characteristics of a person.

There is a saying that character can determine life, it is more important than natural talent.

No matter how smart a person is, no matter how gifted he is, if he loses his character, there is no need to interact.

Character is the weapon to establish oneself, the principle to deal with things, and the most fundamental base of a person.

No matter how well wrapped the surface is, the bottom will be exposed under the wear and tear of time and world affairs.

The world can accommodate millions of people, but it cannot accommodate people of low character.

They will kick their friends in the back when they are happy, they will ridicule and taunt others when they are in trouble, they will do things that are incomprehensible to others, and they will vilify all their cynicism with irrational actions.

Character is supposed to be as heavy as a mountain, and when a person acts without the mountain of principles weighing them down and does things without scruples that are outside the rules of society, they will be duly punished.

The world, after all, is made up of people, and if the character is not established, the connection between people will be broken.

If you get something by trickery, it is not honorable to get it, and if you get an opportunity by scheming, it is not easy to be at peace.

There are too many wise people and too many people who can see clearly. Some things are not said explicitly but have long become a tacit agreement that needs no words.

The first thing you need to do is to get rid of the problem.

Good character is what everyone respects, but the bad character is what everyone hates.

Throughout your life, you must be a person of trustworthy character.

The most basic goodness and compassion for people, but also have the principles and beliefs that can not be easily shaken even if the world changes.

In this life, live well, treat your family well, treat yourself well, and treat the world well.

Let's live together.

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Nona Lunemann

A smile is the most extravagant expression I have, and in this life I have only flooded it with it.

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