What women fear most about cheating

1. People can only judge this event by your age, and today's age judges today's event... Evaluate your past knowledge twenty or thirty years later! How do you feel? Would you consider yourself mature then and now? So see more and speak less, time is a ruler, what you say now may not be right later.

Derailment, need to find the cause of derailment, some feelings are wrong, some spirit is wrong. Man is a superior animal, and the superior animal has thoughts. Long live understanding! In today's world, there should be a proper view of cheating.

Don't cheat, because the marriage relationship is the track, both men and women parallel to each other, one derailment, will overturn the car, but the man seems to be in history can not be constrained by the track. Now that women's economic status has reached parity with men's, men should change some of their attitudes.

Novelty (freshness) heart's sense of balance (revenge), is the root of latent. .. The men and women have the same potential. .. "Security" is just a lame excuse. .. The "moral and normative constraints of the historical stage" have been lifted, and the animal sexuality of the cockroaches is trying to be released and eager to try.

People's comments are the surface, regardless of whether men and women are married or not, the first should be mutual sincerity, respect for equality, share family responsibilities, can not be regarded as each other for their own accessories, get not cherish, both men and women derailed, the other party is responsible.

"Anyone who has read Tolstoy's" Anna Karenina "knows the outcome of cheating, the fate of passion, and the pain of being left out, even if they don't die.

Most women in this situation will feel guilty and attribute the fault to themselves, which will affect the lives of their children. That's a really good line. No problem blaming men.

In the United States, almost one in every 7.5 wives and three husbands has been unfaithful, which is comparable to the percentage of men and women who initiate divorce. Experts said, "At present, the proportion of extramarital affairs in the United States is rising year by year, especially the rate of female infidelity, the increase is the largest, and the highest proportion in the world."

Miss Crane: The most afraid of my reputation will be affected, and people will betray me

Although women's consciousness of independence is improving, women's subconscious sense of moral integrity is still at work, which is caused by long-term historical and cultural views.

The first inner conflict of cheating: moral accusation

What women are most afraid of is that their reputation is affected, when the whole family knows this matter, they can not escape the spit of relatives and friends, even if they get the husband's forgiveness, it is difficult to stay in this environment.

Miss Cullen: The greatest fear is that your husband will not forgive you for your impulse

Many women cheat simply to find an emotional sustenance, they will not really divorce their husband, their cheating objects are mostly married people, each other has needs, but also to protect their families.

Miss Cullen knew that her husband thought conservative, but she still did not restrain herself, after the affair, she was nervous every day, careful everywhere, afraid of being caught by her husband, because she knew a truth.

Men can tolerate women's mental derailment, but they can never tolerate women's physical derailment, women can tolerate men's physical derailment, but they can never tolerate men's mental derailment.

There is a huge difference in the sexual psychology of men and women.

Therefore, if a husband finds his wife physically cheating, he will basically choose to divorce, and he will not forgive, and the obstacle in his heart is doomed to pass.

For men, this is not only physical possessiveness, but also involves the dignity of men.

In a man's eyes, a woman's cheating is a provocation to his dignity.

Men regard their dignity as higher than the sky, and the beloved woman or wife has an affair, which is worse than killing him.

Miss Lucy: The most afraid of setting up a "bad mother" image, affecting children

Underage children always follow popular prejudices when they do not know the specific reasons.

Her 9-year-old daughter is like this, since her cheating was discovered by the family, the daughter's attitude toward her mother has changed, hiding from her mother everywhere. She was very uncomfortable, because she had not yet given women popular knowledge about sex, let alone know how to explain the affair.

In the minds of minor children, if the mother derailment, will feel that the mother is an inconsiderate, no matter the other side to explain it is no use, just like her 9-year-old daughter, the mother has a certain resistance, there are some extreme children, will loathe the mother, choose to break off the mother-child relationship with the mother, This is a huge blow to women.

Most women in this situation will feel guilty and attribute the fault to themselves, which will affect the lives of their children.

Miss Joy: Afraid of falling in love with a lover and being abandoned and ending up with nothing

Women's sexual psychology is usually linked to feelings, in a one-night stand psychological survey, the desire to maintain long-term links with men accounted for 70% of women, while the desire to continue to maintain links with women accounted for only 11% of men.

It can be seen that men's derailment "play" psychology accounts for more.

Psychologically, women can't shake the self-blame of having sex with strange men.

Therefore, falling in love with a lover is the most afraid of women cheating, they transferred the husband's positioning to the lover, and the lover is just playing with himself.

Many women who fall in love with their lovers will pretend to "go kidney rather than heart" in order to maintain this relationship, which is a very painful and tormenting process.

When things are exposed, the convenience will abandon the woman directly for fear of being involved, and avoid seeing the former lover. At this time, a woman who wants to return to her husband is very awkward, in a dilemma, and ultimately may have no way out.

Ms. Gale: The most afraid of getting divorced at an old age, it is difficult to marry again and die alone

Many women do not divorce because of family children, Ms. Qin is also.

She has long been estranged from her husband, so also quietly derailed for many years, her husband's side has long been outside to keep a small third, but she pretended not to know it, both sides are to maintain the marriage for the child, Ms. Gale also wanted to divorce, but hesitated in the face of the child.

She is also old, if one day really divorce, forced to leave the house, it is estimated that it is difficult to find the next home, coupled with her cheating experience, afraid of gossip, no one dares to marry, and finally face the situation of loneliness for life.

In fact, most women derailment has a common, when the passion has become fuel, rice, oil and salt, men ignore women's "sexual needs", or sexual ability problems, put all their energy into the career, busy with work or wine, women in the extreme mental loneliness and physical emptiness of the case, there is a derailment thought.

In the final analysis, the nature of a woman's derailment is because of insecurity, not simply looking for new stimulation, women's sexual psychology is always linked to emotional appeals.

If men can give women more care and cherish in marriage life, I believe that the marriage crisis will slowly dissolve, then this derailment will be reduced accordingly.