LADIES!

LADIES! THE BALL IS IN YOUR COURT

Ladies you have to understand that when a man loves you, he will come, he will approach you but your response most times, makes a man to back off 💯.

Now see it from this perspective, you as a lady, a man sees you, likes you and approach you but you might be in a relationship normal, and tells him you are not interested or sometimes, you ladies just want to be on your own, no relationship, just self-love 💯.

Now, in the aspects of you being single not dating, you don't care to follow up that guy, like timely, you chat with him and ask him how does he do, try to know him even though you don't want to have a relationship, you don't know who God has destined for you 💯.

Most African ladies have this mentality, when the guy gets married or gets into a relationship, you start to wish to have him by then you now know he's a good guy. In this aspect, I see ladies as being too proud and too pompous 💯. It’s never wrong to check up on a guy except maybe he does something bad to you and you don't want anything to do with him 💯.

This attitude of ladies, has made many ladies go into a wrong relationship and marriages and are regretting and wishing they can go back to the guy they once knew or that approached them, but it might be too late 💯.

My central point or advice is for you ladies not to neglect any guy that approach you because he might come as a funny guy or in a funny way but might be the kind of man you've wished for 💯.

I must tell you, any guy you tell you are dating or you are not ready for a relationship, the ball shifts to your Court, because this guy will be standing pending or in a simple way, you just placed the guy on hold and he's expecting your response which means, you as a lady have to either show him that you are interested now and with a good sign because he can easily see it as a joke, or you confess your love for him with a good reason for coming back 💯.

Men want assurance, due to the kind of personality men are, they want you to prove to them that you are this or that and are willing to be loyal. A man can love a prostitute knowing that she is a prostitute and not cheat on her because she is open and truthful 💯 believe me.

Most ladies feel too proud and too full of themselves because of their beauty because of the guy they are dating, forget that dating or courtship is not marriage and even those that are married to rich men, some are divorced because they realize that money is not love 💯 while initially money was all for love.

Be a woman that has foresight as regards to what you want, it is not bad to chat up a guy you want to date and give him green light in a funny way like joking with him or simply asking him about his day, "everyday", he will one day understand that you care and Men love caring ladies 💯.

Never forget the actions of your man in a relationship because, he is indirectly telling you his feelings, if he actually likes the relationship or not. Same actions repeated several times is a red flag thank you 💯🙏👑.