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How To Flirt As A Single Woman

Unlocking Your Inner Charmer

By OJO OREOFEPublished about a year ago 4 min read
How To Flirt As A Single Woman
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This article is going to be teaching you how to be more approachable and how to flirt with men with guys without appearing needy that's the key word, without appearing needy or without looking desperate. This is such an important topic and I'm so excited to talk about it and what I'm gonna talk about today are not things that everyone talks about I discovered that a lot of single women don't know how to be more approachable. How to put themselves out here and one of the reasons why it's difficult for them from their late 20s is because some of them have spent so much of their time in their career because some of them are so accomplished so they are not as approachable. Yeah, they look too serious for life and they have their finances together they are driving their cars they're wearing designer perfumes they have their six-inch heels. Some men shy away from approaching such women because they can look intimidating, they can look No Nonsense. I'm gonna tell you tricks and things you can do to put yourself out here and ways you can flirt like a lady in a ladylike way without appearing needy and without looking desperate.

Bible says whoever finds a wife finds a good thing yeah so the keyword is find you have to be in a position to be found as a wife. How to put yourself out there is to take yourself out of the house. And taking yourself out of the house doesn't mean it has to be planned. Join a lot of groups. Tour companies have these groups where they take people on Hikes. you know something like that. Just take yourself out of the house

Other things that you can do is do lunches with your friends or sisters. Go for a party somewhere. when you go out, show interest in conversations, be interested in people and be interesting. When you are out there, do not hide your strongholds. Do not hide your hips, you know, your curves. Let your best features show don't cover everything. We know less is more I'm not asking you to wear skimpy dresses I'm asking you to dress like a single woman who's in the market yeah to look sexy to look good to look presentable. Also, take care of your body. Wear a deodorant for those who don't do perfumes and shave your armpits. While dressing up , Please have a heel. At least a two inch heel, look good. Even if you don't wear makeup please have a little lip balm or just do your brows look presentable look nice.

Now we're done with that the next part I'm gonna talk about is how to flirt. This is so important. Ladies let me tell you this, men are also scared of rejection. How to flirt and how to be more available.

When I mentioned putting yourself out there. I said you have to be interesting. This is what I mean. For example, you're at an event you're there with your glass of wine and then a guy comes over to you and says hi beautiful. Instead of just saying hi and moving on to what you are doing, just say Hi how are you, how long have you been here or is this your first time to this event? Move the conversation forward ladies.

Another thing you you can do is to ask questions. Lets say you're seated at a round table and there's a guy standing next to you who's looking good. You can ask questions. It has to be a smart question especially about the event you're attending. Another thing you can do is to complement someone. Compliments are good it's like just asking questions. You're standing next to someone you are at a hike or whatever and they have really nice gym shoes you can compliment them, oh, I really like your shoes are they Nike why did you buy them oh they're really nice that's how you also start a conversation ladies you're not losing anything that is how we talk to our neighbors that is how we talk to the shopkeeper to everybody so why is it becoming a big deal because now this is a handsome guy or this is someone you feel like you would want some something with don't overthink it. Carry conversation like a grown-up .

So ladies there's nothing wrong with wanting to be a career woman there's nothing wrong with over achieving there's nothing it's wonderful it's so attractive to find a woman who is in order, she has her car, she knows who she is, she's confident it's so attractive like I keep saying the most attractive quality in a woman is her confidence. But sometimes we work so hard and then we've achieved all that and then when it comes to dating, we feel like it's affecting our dating life. It doesn't have to affect it put yourself out there.

Thank you for reading my story. Bye.

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OJO OREOFE

Hi there, My name is Ojo Oreofe. I am a professional writer with over two years of experience creating content for a variety of audiences. I have worked as a freelance writer for multiple publications. In my free time, I enjoy reading.

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