We were born ordinary, and we will be ordinary

Nowadays many things talk about freedom, financial freedom, travel freedom, reading freedom, emotional freedom, freedom of thought. This shows that people are really not free now. The more you pursue, the less you want. Don't let the joy of living be ruined by the pursuit of some other person's arbitrary definition of "fake freedom".

A person's heart is rich enough, the aura is naturally strong, and the things around him are also "chicken and dog rise to heaven". Jobs's T-shirt jeans, Zuckerberg's round neck, Jack Ma's sweater shirt and old Beijing cloth shoes. They don't need big names. They are big names. Dress freedom is not about buying and wearing what you want, it's about being able to wear whatever you want, and no one will tell you what to do. Of course they wouldn't care if they did.

I used to love dressing up, chasing big brands, a good match, can make the mood a good day. Otherwise, you will be annoyed and unhappy. Old enough to understand that looks can win a first impression, but to win a person, it still depends on the inside knowledge. If the other party is a customer, only the price, interests can let us talk about, feelings and feelings are in the common interests to say after.

I thought to myself, maybe clothes are the last confidence of ordinary people. What makes us less confident? Why do most people put their confidence in their clothes? Maybe most people can't be like Huang Zhizhong in their whole life. We are born ordinary and will be ordinary eventually. What is the meaning of our life?

Forget what my mentor said -- you can go with the flow in life, but you have to sneak up on your ideas. Perhaps to answer this question, love one thing to study it, other than everything else can be casual.

The truth is so said, but the reality is that women only care about each other's economic security when they get married. Men work hard and work overtime, and their wages rise, and the housing price also rises. It seems that no matter how hard they try, they can't marry the girl they love and buy the home they want. Most people are always caught up in the trend, telling themselves that if they work hard, everything will happen, but also bear the blow, efforts are not a drop in the ocean, futile.

Grown-ups live in a boring world where they work overtime every day, or even work all year round just to put food on the table. The occasional drunken indulgence shouted to be free, to live differently. The next day is still the same person, for life, mechanical ground work. Because mortgage to return, children to raise, parents to filial piety, ordinary people like us, freedom should be hidden in the heart of a thorn, occasionally think, occasionally sting our numb heart.

It seems that ordinary people like us, no matter how hard we try, still can't catch up with the rising speed of housing prices and prices. No matter how hard we try, we still can't get the freedom we want.

So does what we're doing make sense? In your city, do you want to believe that struggle will lead to freedom? Maybe not for a hundred years.

You or I have probably asked ourselves this question more than once, in a narrow, closed house, at a busy crossroads. Later through the world to know a lot of things are futile, but also understand the efforts to make themselves become a little different. You can occasionally choose the life you want to live. You can occasionally take a break from your orderly life and take a hard look at yourself.

I see life clearly, also understand that we are born ordinary, will be ordinary, so more to love this life. I want to be able to say, when I am sixty, that I have had a moment of freedom, even a moment, is enough to sustain the memory.