Warm and cold are the temperature of the world

When we have been tossing and turning among human feelings for a long time, we will involuntarily sigh: human feelings are cold and warm! People are influenced by traditional family education, and human feelings will always interfere with our behavior. We yearn for freedom, and we cannot do without the warmth of our family. This contradictory idea touches the hearts of many people.

When I was a child, I lived in the countryside, and the neighbors were very friendly. The gates were open, and they visited each other. Everyone knew what to cook. I often borrowed vermicelli, used soy sauce and vinegar, and even gave the neighbors the delicious food. point. One day, a young couple from around Shanghai came. They made their own meals and closed the door when they were at home. They had little money and goods with their neighbors, but they greeted everyone politely. Gradually, there were still gossips coming, saying that they came from big cities and looked down on rural people, that they always closed their doors and were very lonely, and so on.

At that time, I felt that that kind of life was very free. I didn’t have to worry about the sudden intrusion of my neighbors, I didn’t have to worry about other people’s gossip when I wanted to do something, and I could do whatever I wanted. But adults say not to interact with others and make others laugh. Growing up, I understand that what they do is actually afraid of being left out by the group, erasing individuality and integrating into the collective can be replaced by safety, and the pursuit of individuality is always accompanied by risks. Look at now, the development of society has made people change their way of life again. Those who go to the city to live with their children can't find themselves, the children from the countryside can't find themselves in the city, and the young people can't feel the warmth of humanity when they work in the city. .

In addition to complaining about human indifference, do we reflect on ourselves? Everyone has their own life and should respect the lives of others. Don't mix life and social life, and infiltrate each other's life regardless of each other. If you pay attention, you will hurt your heart. In the end, you only sigh about the warmth of humanity. My mother told me that, in fact, in the rural areas now, every household is closed, and no one is willing to visit anyone’s house easily. People who are doing well are afraid of being jealous, and those who are not doing well are afraid that others will look down on them.

It's not uncommon for people living in cities, people in a building to never meet, and not knowing who the neighbors are. Everyone is in their own classes, doing their own things, and living their own lives behind closed doors. The indifference of human feelings under the steel barrier does make people yearn for the harmonious neighborhood in the countryside, but no one really wants to go back.

Instead of sighing at the friendliness of your friends, you can't stand the indifference of others. It's better to change your mentality, take the initiative to contact everyone, and do something for the warmth of the world.

Human feelings are warm and cold, there is a cold side, and there is a warm side.

Cold means that everyone lives their own lives. This is a state of life and an expression of life.

What about warm? It is because there are always good people in this society who are willing to help others when they need them.

Cold and warm and warm, complement each other, and excessive cold and warm will bring trouble to other people's lives.

Excessive indifference will make people only see the ugliness and sadness of life, and by looking at them, they will be able to see their own shadows from these negative images.

Excessive enthusiasm will make others feel uncomfortable. After all, everyone needs their own space. Maybe we can understand that a person's enthusiasm comes from his positive yearning for life, but keeping a little distance will make everyone's life more comfortable. comfortable.

Therefore, the cold and warm are alternated like spring, summer, autumn and winter. If there is no season, the four seasons will not be able to taste the taste of life.

To take care of yourself is to maintain a moderate coldness, to cause less trouble to others, and to exercise your ability to survive independently.

Mind your own business is to maintain a moderate warmth. Being less mindful doesn’t mean you don’t care. There are some things that need help from others. Once the conditions are ripe, your helping hand will make the people you help feel the warmth of life.

Warm and cold are the temperature of the world, feel the world with your heart, whether it is beautiful or cruel, please be gentle, please be strong, and please have a hope in your heart.