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Troubled life, I am troubled and happy

Everyone needs to mature in trouble.

By Alexander MillerPublished 2 years ago 4 min read
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Troubled life, I am troubled and happy
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Don't be afraid of troubles, you yearn for a carefree life, which is someone else's life. We are just spectators, not experiencers, of other people's lives. Everyone needs to mature in trouble.

May wish to look back and think about it, it is precise because of these entanglements and troubles that have accompanied us along the way that we continue to grow, and it is precisely because there are many troubles that we have hope for. If there are no troubles, then our life is all smooth sailing and all our dreams come true. This kind of life may be the life that many people want. When you are truly in such a life, there is no pursuit, no dream, and no hope, because as long as you have a need, you will be satisfied, what is the meaning of life?

When we were just born, when our consciousness was still relatively confused, we had no troubles. It can only be said that we have not really started to touch the world, nor even have a preliminary understanding of the world. What is there to talk about troubles? Say what? When we were able to walk, troubles followed, and from time to time we fell to the ground when we learned to walk. The only way we could express our troubles at that time was to cry, and then we continued to learn to walk because we knew it would hurt after a fall. , so we progress again and again and eventually learn to walk. These are the troubles and entanglements that make us grow step by step.

Troubles will accompany us all our lives. We have troubles when we are young, troubles when we grow up, troubles after growing up, and troubles after getting old. We are accompanied by troubles in this life. The only way we think I can get rid of troubles is to solve them. Troubles keep growing, maturing, and progressing. However, once the troubles at one stage are resolved, another trouble will follow. We are like a curse, and we can never get rid of them. As a result, some people give up on themselves. Instead of solving it, it will appear. Why is it that you have to suffer so hard? It is better not to solve it than let him exist forever! They then complained about the injustice of society, the unreasonable system, and their birth. There is another type of people who do not have troubles and entanglements, find the reasons and find ways to solve them. After each trouble is solved, they will have a sense of accomplishment in their hearts, and they will become more and more as they solve the troubles they encounter at different stages. more mature.

In the past, I always complained that this was bad and that was bad. As a result, I found that everything in my world was bad, not what I expected. Every time I encountered something, I would run away. However, people can't live in escape all the time. When there is no escape, either choose to destroy or face it. I don't have the determination and courage to destroy, so I can only choose to face it. When I seriously analyze why I am troubled by myself, what is the cause of my troubles, and then find a solution for myself, slowly, I find that all troubles can be solved.

Everyone has troubles and moments of confusion. It is in the midst of thousands of troubles and confusions, in countless hesitations and swings, that we were gradually mature. This is the process of our growth. It is precise because, With so many troubles, we gradually matured from childhood, faded away the greenness, and became independent and perfect people with our ideas.

Fall in love with your destiny, accept it calmly, and then experience the unique experience that life gives each of us; fall in love with troubles, since we cannot avoid troubles, then calmly face the troubles we encounter in life, and do it with troubles. In the process of struggle, we grow up slowly and grow up because of troubles.

Don't worry about being disappointed, let alone worry about worrying. Man is the master of life! Stepping on the rhythm of the times, let us bravely face the troubles of growing up.

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