The more silent the man, the more pattern

Everyone has a different personality since birth.

Some people are big-hearted, what new things will be said outside; some people are quiet and quiet, all the secrets are hidden in the bottom of their hearts.

Different personalities are the norm, but with age, people are subject to change.

It is not difficult to find that when people reach a certain height of age, will become more and more silent.

Some people say that silent people are not good because they do not say anything and will lose a lot of opportunities, but in fact, silent people have more patterns, especially men.

"Silence is the most difficult to argue the argument."

The world of adults is not easy, and the problems encountered are endless, and the solutions to the problems are hidden in silence.

When a person knows how to be silent, problems become clearer and easier to solve.

In the career, a person who wants to be promoted must be less calm this trait, and the silence will be able to handle things calmly.

The thing is not to show off, do not panic, this is a qualified and successful people.

Since childhood, elders have said that men should be on top of the earth, to achieve a great cause.

But many men are always doing things out of tune, there are difficulties in either choosing to escape or being impulsive extreme.

Often, their pattern is reflected at this moment.

Montaigne said, "Silence is more beneficial to socializing than words that do not mean what they say."

There is a lot of learning and socialization with people, including silence.

Some people are new to society, and they want to show themselves, but in the end, because of the eagerness to lose proportion, it has a negative effect.

Compared to the lack of courage to boast, it is better to choose silence and wait and see what happens.

Often, those who hide in the corner, and do not say anything, are the real big man.

And many examples can prove that life is far from quiet for those who are acute because when a person becomes eager, many things will be messed up.

Silence is not only to give yourself more time to think but also to leave the back of the relationship with each other.

When one stands at the foot of a mountain one sees very little, but when you get to the top of the mountain you get a sweeping view of the surrounding landscape.

The same is true when communicating with people, when you can see the whole situation, then you are in an invincible position.

Regardless of who you are communicating with, you can be "in and out".

In social circles, people are always learning how to speak, because a word can be an antidote or poison.

Some people are always talking to the point where they will inadvertently say something that makes people think.

Maybe you don't mean what you say, but it means something else when you hear it in other people's ears.

Therefore, if you want to stabilize the relationship, it is important to let the words pass through the mind before they are taken out of the mouth.

And silence is to allow you to make you less likely to say the wrong thing.

Shelley said, "shallow water is noisy, deep water is silent".

Those who are silent understand one thing: no one is perfect.

We can't do everything to deal with everything, so they choose to listen, from a spectator's point of view to see the people and things in front of them.

I often hear the saying, "Those in authority are confused, those on the sidelines are clear."

When a person takes a third perspective on things, they are in the best position to control where things are going.

You can learn the strengths of others and hide your underpinnings and flaws in the process of getting along with people.

When one day, you enhance the value and make achievements in something, you will get the praise of a big pattern.

A person's pattern is hidden in many places, but there must be a pattern in silence.

Someone said, "Silence is the path to wisdom, silence in the thought and action contains great energy."

People grow in silence, but also the silence of the burst of power.

When a person is silent, at least that he is mature and willing to think.

Life is always a difficult problem, if you do not quietly think and do, you will never get the life you want.

So, silence is the key, but also the way to grow up.