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Survive the lows of life, and the future is all the way up

Don't go too fast, wait for the soul. If you don't have time to put on your makeup, the only remedy is to smile!

By ClaraPublished 2 years ago 4 min read
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Gains and losses sometimes, no one will be lost forever, and no one will always be in a low point.

Life is like climbing a mountain. The tests given by fate are all our experiences. As long as we don’t give up when we are at a low point, every step we take next is an uphill road.

Accept the unchangeable facts with a calm heart

If the heart cares about everywhere, life is a mountain full of complaints;

If the heart is calm and peaceful, life is a plain filled with sunshine.

Changes in the world for thousands of years are like horses, and when you feel powerless, you just need to accept it.

In this bizarre world, not everyone can live a smooth life, at least feel a shadowless hindering force in the dark valley of life.

So we are occasionally angry, sometimes anxious, and occasionally lose hope in life, but when we change our minds to accept these realities, maybe everything will not be so bad.

Life is a contest between oneself and oneself. Facing the reality, resignation is cowardly, and clinging to the foregone reality is ignorance.

We should keep ourselves away from cowardice and ignorance, focus on other things that can be changed, and improve our other abilities, instead of doing useless struggles, always obsessed with changing the facts that cannot be changed.

Knowing how to accept the reality that cannot be changed is not only an expression of optimism and open-mindedness, but also a kind of great wisdom in life.

In The Fifth Discipline, Peter Shengjie assumes that there is a rubber band between ideal and reality, and the tension generated by stretching the rubber band represents the gap between ideal and reality.

If we want to reduce tension, we can only make reality move closer to ideal, or make ideal move closer to reality, so many people mistakenly think that this "tension" implies anxiety and stress.

But in fact it is a source of creative energy, and when we realize that our ideals are inconsistent with reality, we will actively admit the truth of reality and face our deep-seated fears and other emotions.

A philosopher said: I hope to have three kinds of wisdom: first, try to do the things that you can change; second, accept the things you can't change, don't worry about the things you can't change; third, have the ability to distinguish between these things. The wisdom of two things.

Only the calmness of Yuebaifengqing can bring the calmness of people like chrysanthemums.

All suffering in life has its meaning

Humans are self-deceiving animals. After we have suffered a lot of useless suffering and wasted a lot of precious years, the voice in our head will keep telling us: "This experience is sublime".

Every experience can lead to growth, why do we believe that only suffering is the shortcut to growth?

That's because no one can easily accept the dark side of life, but most sufferings are unavoidable and inescapable. We can only face it calmly and not let ourselves be blinded by obsessions. sense of help.

Destiny is like a rain. When it is hot and boring, we call it rain; when the shiny leather shoes are stained with mud, we begin to complain about its arrival.

Suffering is actually this kind of rain that is both incomprehensible and untimely. A life that has gone through hardships or a smooth and peaceful life is just a matter of probability. Sometimes we have to accept the gift of fate.

It's like accepting an unexpected rain, accepting the sudden gloom of the sky, cold and wet clothes and makeup washed away by the rain.

The significance of suffering lies in the lessons and experiences we have learned from suffering, and the ability to improve by overcoming it.

So, instead of thanking the suffering, you have to thank yourself for overcoming it and persevering.

It's often a turning point in life when you're at a low point

What exactly are we talking about when it comes to low points in life?

Is it because of sudden changes and a series of bad news that we are at a loss, or do we suddenly realize the paleness of life and our own powerlessness in the face of birth, old age, illness and death, joys and sorrows?

When the whole world seems to have abandoned us, leaving only loneliness and nightmares entangled all the time, we begin to wonder if the world of our beliefs has collapsed.

It can be seen from this that, compared with smooth sailing, low times are more important to human beings themselves. Only when we feel pain can we wake up from our imaginary fantasy, realize that "I" is an independent individual, and then start to correct ourselves. idea,

Moreover, the short-term trough may just be the adjustment and accumulation of the rising momentum, which makes us fall from a position that is not too high, and further reminds us to slow down and accumulate strength, so as to hold the commanding heights.

Waiting for others to love you is worse than trying to love yourself.

The biggest enemy of man is not others, but himself. Only by conquering oneself can we overcome difficulties!

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