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Please be kind to your wife, she is the lover of your life

Marriage is about hugs and kisses

By li liPublished 2 years ago 7 min read
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He said: In marriage, love must be the foundation, and always must be the foundation.

I am very opposed to husband and wife becoming relatives, my parents are relatives, and my daughter is a relative;

But my wife will always be my lover, my wife and I are still a couple, should be a couple for life.

Huang Lei doesn't like to travel, so he goes home to be with his wife when filming is over. In recent years, he did not give up his wife's cooking but cooked for his family.

In September 2015, Huang and his wife held a wedding party for "20 years of love".

The smile on the face of his wife, Sun Li, and the upbringing of his two daughters, as well as the praise from everyone, all show the excellence of this man.

Huang Lei felt that his wife is always the "lover" in his eyes, should be more careful.

"Marriage is about hugging and kissing," he said. "Nothing is about eating a pot and sleeping in a bed."

Let a person listen to shy, binge-eating a handful of dog food.

But the reality of fireworks in the husband and wife is not exactly the need for such love nourishment.

Love is passion, intimacy, and commitment, and it has nothing to do with the family.

We all have a family. What we need in a marriage is a lover to spend the rest of our lives with.

After getting married, many men regard their wives as their relatives and think that marriage is a guarantee, without love and romantic interest.

When you are not willing to give love, the wife suffered for a long time, day after day, but she will still be infatuated with you.

The answer is no.

Only good love interaction can make the relationship between husband and wife closer and more lasting.

In a healthy family, the relationship between husband and wife must come first.

Please be kind to your wife, she is the one who loves you all your life.

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In the community, there is an old couple.

All the year round, happily jogging in the park, exercise figure, often let us envy.

In their late eighties, they were still bright and smiling.

Their children work abroad, and the couple walks every morning and evening, silver-haired and dashing, much younger than they are.

I often see the old man carrying a basket to go home, buy carefully selected fresh vegetables, but also cook food for his wife to eat;

The house is also placed in the wife's favorite flowers and plants.

Once, I saw them go to Malaysia to travel back, envy said: "Old man, you to aunt, can be good ah."

He helped his wife put on the coat while laughing and saying: "Your aunt accompany me this life is not easy, I ah, she hold in the hand."

Love and be loved, are happy.

Two people in a house, three meals, four seasons, a couple of gods, is that it?

People to the old know really can go through life hand in hand with you, only the wife.

She is your emotional sustenance, is the nurse in your life, and is the listener in your heart.

Only she can be with you through thick and thin, share ups and downs, love each other, and never abandon you.

Please be kind to your wife, she is the one who will accompany you forever.

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What impressed me most was a cartoon by Zhu Deyong:

Two couples passed each other arm in arm, and the women walked on with their eyes fixed on each other, while the men stole their eyes back at each other's beautiful wives.

The cartoon shows, on the one hand, that a man is blind to his wife's beauty; On the other hand, men tend to love new people and hate old ones.

There are some men around, Valentine's Day or Chinese Valentine's Day, who do not give their wives a gift, beautiful name:

An old married couple, just like the left-hand touches the right hand, passion attributed to insipid, what festival?

Some men simply said: Valentine's Day is a holiday with the lover, the wife is relatives, do not have a holiday.

They are too busy eating, drinking, and playing outside to care about their wives.

Let's just say that a man like that is too selfish to consider his wife's feelings.

A wife was once a beautiful girl, you once sought after by all means, just hold a beautiful woman.

For you to wash the lead, have children, run the house, respect the elderly raise small. Poor food does not mind you poor, smelly feet do not mind you dirty.

Does she not deserve Valentine's Day because she's married?

Don't forget, in the eyes of other men, your wife is also a beautiful flower.

Send your wife a bunch of flowers and she will happily return a box of chocolates. Hug your wife and she will happily kiss you back.

You shelter her from the wind and rain, and she relieves your troubles.

There is a saying: the wife when the princess, you are the prince; If you treat your wife as your slave, you are your servant.

The way you treat your wife will become the way she treats you.

Please be kind to your wife, she is the one who takes care of you in the end.

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Neighbor D has a short temper and often shouts at his wife, which is difficult to respect.

He did not have a wife in his feelings, then as expected derailed, and husband and wife, divorced.

Mr. D finally got his wish and married that beautiful little lover.

More than ten years passed, and his wife is disgusted that he is old and sick, lost power and lost power, together with his lover, he swept out.

And the son of the first wife is not willing to support the irresponsible father.

It was only now that he was regretful and unhappy.

But no one sympathizes with his experience, said at the beginning do not cherish his wife's pay, and deserves this bleak end.

There is a joke: the wife is other people's good, the child is their own lovely.

There are some men, only in their marriage when the uncle, to the family of the big and small things, ignore, will make this speech.

Because no sense of responsibility for the man, do not know how to love their wife and children.

They do not cherish the hard work of their wives for the family, but only see the glamorous wives of others;

They do not appreciate the children's food, drink, sleep and mischief, are the wife in cleaning up, but just think the children will obediently grow up by themselves.

Guan Hanqing, a famous writer in the Yuan Dynasty, once said: Flowers bloom, and people are never young again.

When men are in the prime of life, they get carried away and ignore their wives and children while they enjoy themselves.

Even feel that making money is big ye, dislikes his wife is yellow face woman, divorced and marrying a young new sweetheart.

Thought to earn a cheap, in fact, a big loss.

The result of the separation of the wife is often mistaken for his wife's life but also harms the children psychologically and life in trouble, difficult to become successful and happy.

More never thought: such as old age, weak, being swept out of the new love, regret has no avail, life is impossible to start over.

Only the wife for love into marriage, for the family, endures humiliation, will be willing to accompany you for life.

The lover as a wife, as the wife as a lover.

Bill Gates, the founder of Microsoft, said that marrying his wife was the smartest decision he ever made.

Bill Gates is the richest man in the world, of course, there is no lack of beauty around, but he is smart, and love is still his wife.

The wife's face hides the temperature of her husband's love.

A wife who is well treated and nourished by love is often happy and full, with a beautiful smile, and younger and more beautiful than her years.

A healthy, happy wife, taking care of the kids and the family, so you can focus on your career.

Wife is not relative, but accompany your life lover, if you treat your wife, she can also, do your most beautiful lover.

Please be kind to your wife, she is the lover of your life.

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