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Men and women dating, if they have mutual affection, can completely see

Love Psychology

By Matthew A LamPublished 2 years ago 6 min read
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Meet a person, feel that this life will have a sea change, not unwarranted panic and anxiety, but see the feedback and response, this is the fundamental reason for deep friendship between people.

No matter how much you love a person, as long as the other party does not respond, perfunctory, cold, plus a little contempt and disdain, you are unlikely to continue to love, more unlikely to become attached to the habit, people have the instinct to avoid harm, encounter not good, not warm, not cute, not comfortable, will automatically avoid and jump away, not disappointed, but instinctive self-preservation reaction, heterosexual interactions also have similar signs. It's just that people don't know how to explain and see through it.

In the relationship between men and women, if they have a mutual affection for each other, it is mostly visible, signs can be followed, details can be proved, and everything is shown in the get-together: first, emotional connection, mutual mapping, and projection, is completely integrated and compatible signs; second, two-way run, synchronization or timely, always in a unified time and space to accompany and get along; third, pay generously, and bet on the obvious me, completely unreserved gift and pour, is The madness of love, but also the basic characteristics of love.

When you are attracted to a person, too many things will become our surprise and surprise, even you feel incredible, but this is the interpretation of good feelings, instinctive occurrence, subconscious existence, automatic performance, occasionally not controlled by the will, even if the rational restraint, it is difficult to suppress the joy inside.

If a man or woman is in a relationship, if they have mutual affection, they can see it completely

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Emotional interconnection

What is the instinctive reaction to love someone? It is probably the best way to accommodate each other's likes and dislikes, as well as personal preferences and habits, not to settle, not to accommodate, but to love all about each other because of love, the most appropriate description is to love the house and the crow.

If one day, you expressed disgust, disgust, rejection, and slightly critical of the opposite sex that you like, then please reflect on yourself, the adoration here is likely to be a simple need and desire, and the stimulation of the feeling and the heart of the situation, true love can not be lost and scattered in the middle, it is easy to long exist and brewing, constitute a part of your life, completely can not be stripped and empty, the longer the more time passes, the clearer it becomes, and the longer we spend together, the more solid and attached we become.

Emotional interconnection, in real life, mostly manifested as these things on the subtle and warm: first, your performance of certain details, will make each other extreme joy and love, not because you are too soft, but because each other understands you, each other also understand, more can stand in your point of view thinking and judgment; second, subconscious favoritism and support for you, regardless of right or wrong, is to feel the love you to be the happiest and happy, as for the truth of The third, immersion in the relationship, sinking type of love, no other thoughts and room.

In the matter of mutual emotional connection, what we see is the synchronized accommodation and understanding between the two, mutual respect and affection, just like lovers who have been together for a long time, harmonious and orderly, loving and warm, without signs of rejection and separation.

The two of them have a good understanding of each other, and this is the quality of the right fate, mutual affection, and other circumstances.

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Two-way running

Whether it is contact or thinking, there are signs of two-way running, for example, one is ready to call or send another WeChat, the other can always respond promptly and serious interaction, no signs of perfunctory and bored, the longer the time maintained, the more it means that the two belong to the case of mutual affection.

The two-way run, not only love and affection, and get along on the humility and tolerance, as well as serious and attentive, including payment, is also equal and respectful, there is no one to the other party in charge and humble, there is no one to the other side of the excessive payment and accommodation, everything is more like harmony and tacit understanding, as people fantasize and question the same: telepathy.

In love there are too many things that cannot be explained in words, the probability is that the tacit understanding and sensation brewed by the two-way run, giving the impression that it is incredible and unlikely, but is happening so that people have to admit the phantom beauty and romance of love.

Two people have a good feeling for each other is the case, is the time, the heart, the love, the actual value and so on have the same added and pour, in some cases, there will be synchronized occurrence and existence, which makes people feel very loving and warm, simply can not resist the fate.

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Pay generously, and gambling obviously

The two of them can automatically give up other options, willing to look forward to this relationship for a long time, a lot of seriousness, do not care whether there is a result, but this is the mutual care and cherishing, is the most likely to be repaired.

Some love is firm, between men and women is felt and perceived, such as details in the give and take, performance in the timely and serious, attitude paranoia and gambling, etc., all these things will let each other recognize that adoration is feasible, the choice is valuable, companionship is long and happy.

In love, there is more than just romance and impulse, there is also down-to-earth payment and companionship, a serious heart and deep love, compared to the feeling of waves, down-to-earth performance, and solid payment or more meaning and touching.

Some lovers are a bit of leeway and retreat, either to test the sincerity and love or to examine how the other attitude, to give and accompany, interact and contact, as long as the other party is not sincere, they will never give too much, this trade-off between the performance is difficult to have results.

But the men and women who have a good feeling for each other, most of them do not count gains and losses in getting along, no leeway, do not give themselves back, even if they are wrong or no results, but also admitted that this life must experience each other's baptism and companionship, even if scarred, but also still have a taste in the heart, is the price of growth, but also the landscape of life, it does not matter if you win or lose, just like enough to explain everything.

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