Hypocritical goodness is more terrible than evil

It is said to be kind, but unprincipled kindness will only hurt yourself, seemingly in helping people, but maybe doing bad things.

There is no shortage of keyboard warriors on the network to promote justice, thinking they have done good things, but do not know the right and wrong statements, often hurting innocent people.

You can be kind, but you can't be right or wrong.

Wrong kindness, is the trap of hell, the surface looks good, but, may be doing something stupid, was sold to help others count the money kind.

1. Hypocritical goodness, more terrible than evil

The world exists good, but not all good is good.

Some of them are just wolves in sheep's clothing.

The most terrible kind of people in life are not the bad people who commit crimes, but the good old people who are willing to help others.

Bad people do bad things and do them blatantly, while good old people do good things on the surface, but are not necessarily good people.

He goes to great lengths to help strangers all day long but does not care about the half-death of his wife and children at home, preferring to suffer the family, rather than condescending to others. Seemingly good people, but irresponsible people.

His kindness is aimed at outsiders and focuses on reputation, rather than true kindness, rather than true hypocrisy.

Everything he does is for the false name of "good man".

Perhaps the beginning is really good, but a taste of the "joy" of helping people, slowly forgetting the measure, began to fame.

People live, with too much attention to their vanity, but easy to lose goodness.

Goodness is not something that is done deliberately to whom it is natural, to want to do things, not related to the interests, only for peace of mind.

2. unprincipled goodness, is the beginning of the tragedy

Since childhood, we have received the education of "kindness to others", and habitually helping people, although, in recent years due to "porcelain" less courage, the help will still help.

However, sometimes helping people will help a problem.

Your willingness to help, in his view, became a "good talk", a strong effort to play pity to win your sympathy, to maximize the benefits.

Even, though some people may see you as kind and bullying, regardless of the wind-up, a strong in your body sucks blood.

"Natsume Tomoyo" mentioned: "always hold the idea of soft-heartedness, the harm is going to come back to you."

Not all favors should be helped, and unprincipled kindness will only get you restricted everywhere and dragged into hell by scoundrels.

Instead of saying yes to everything, you should learn to distinguish between what you should and should not.

In Maupassant's masterpiece "Sheepskin", the prostitute Sheepskin breaks her principles again and again because of her "kindness", but in the end, she gets hurt by others.

She thought she could get sincerity with her heart, but forgot the existence of prejudice, and unequal status from the beginning, long ago divided into three, six, and nine, in their view, the lowly people who do more are still lowly, just for the pleasure of existence.

In the conflict of interest, the rich people said the praise, more is the use of sheepskin "good" strategy, belief is the beginning of the tragedy.

Underestimating the evil of human nature is the greatest folly of being a human being.

Break the principle, there is the first time, and there will be a second time.

No principle of kindness will only let themselves constantly hurt, and finally, fall into the bottomless abyss.

3.

Alain de Botton mentioned in "The Consolation of Philosophy", "Do not be surprised that things do not go as you wish, for this universe is much bigger than you."

Kindness may not be rewarded, and it may not be good, but when kindness is in the heart, the heart's direction is all bright.

If you use kindness in the wrong place, you can change it.

Who did not do one or two foolish things when they were young, know how to correct mistakes, and have a chance to start over.

Sometimes things don't go as planned, it's not kindness that's at fault, it's the bad guys who have a lot of heart, so keep an eye on everything and don't do good things recklessly.

When it comes to things that may be dangerous, it is better to get help from the police than to help yourself.

Be kind, but also know how to distinguish between good and evil, or you may put yourself into hell at any time.