How is love ?

Do you admit this to yourself ? love is both the closest and the furthest thing, both abstract and realistic, we worship love and also fall in love, we truly cherish love and also doubt love, we try to master love. love and also be defeated by love from past to present, countless questions about love have never stopped if you are still having trouble and hurt when loving if you are still asking how to do it. The way to connect with others, you can have a lasting love for someone without losing yourself and what is true love in the end, you can find the answer in the classic book of sociologist famous German-American humanist philosopher erich from one of the representatives of the new school of psychoanalysis sociocultural school This book is called the art of loving it is a Combining philosophy and psychology, it is considered one of the famous theoretical treatises on love. It has been translated into 32 languages. Although it was published in 1957, it still has a profound and profound influence today. helps millions of people understand the nature of love. Many people think that wanting to love honestly means having to invest physically and mentally, but author Farm believes that love is not just an emotion but also requires effort to develop and express one's entire personality. If one wants to have real love, one must make efforts to fully develop one's personality and constantly change oneself in the direction of self-enlightenment. For him, Love is an art, love is a type of ability and today Better Vision will help you explore and grasp this type of Art ability and find out what the true nature of love is. This book will help you escape the hurts in love, help you have a fundamental mindset to understand yourself, resolve misunderstandings, become strong in love and have a truly happy life now. Please listen together Why do you fail when you love? Love happens anytime, anywhere. Some people are in love, some are about to love. The rest spend time talking about love, waiting for love or staying away from love. I do n't know when the phrase I love you I love you has become a word that can be easily uttered. A very common and simple statement. We have enough courage to start loving but we don't have enough. perseverance just to last forever in the book there is a sentence like this in our modern society it is almost impossible to find any activity or business like love which begins with an expectation and hope What does it mean to have great hopes but to consistently fail? It means that any profitable activity can be more successful than love. This also begins to explain why The Age Now love happens so easily but so often fails, first of all because in today's modern society the entire culture is built on the concept of consumption and mutually beneficial exchange. Emotional relationships between people also follow the same basic principles as the commodity and labor markets. The second thing is that we are wrong in the first step to love, there is an example like this Many people are asked why you are not in love yet, most will answer because I haven't met the right person yet. Once I meet you, I will automatically fall in love, but author thinks this thought is funny because it is impossible to say why you If you don't know how to draw, it's because you have n't seen the things you want to draw. Everyone always thinks you have to meet the right person to truly love. It's not because I'm incapable of love, it's because the sea of ​​people is so vast. The right person has not yet appeared or the Unhappy Marriage is due to meeting the wrong person, so I broke up behind this thought, which means that the problem of love always lies in the person you will love and love. It 's not because of your ability to love, but that 's a misconception because you don't know how to draw because you haven't learned to draw, you don't know how to love, you haven't had real love yet because you haven't learned how to love. The problem never lies in the object but in your own abilities. The third reason is that because love in modern times focuses on the object and is built on material values, people often consider it Love is finding the answer to the question How to be loved, so most people try their best to win the love of another person instead of trying to love that person through love. refer to others Treat love as a win- win investment Every time we talk about love we automatically associate it with many standards Aim to raise our love quotient such as how to have a better image possess more assets in front of a higher position have more influence etc. Everyone craves love but at the same time values ​​other things like achievement status fame and power more powerful than love, so has used most of his life to achieve the above goals and very few people take the time to learn how to love.