Does Having Good Self-Esteem Protect One From a Narcissist?
The Short Answer Is...YES
Does Having Good Self-Esteem Protect One From a Narcissist?
The idea that a person with high self-esteem is less likely to be affected by a narcissist's intentions is supported by research.
However, it is also important to note that narcissists are very good at targeting people who they believe will be more susceptible to their manipulation.
They will often go after those with low self-esteem and may even use the word 'selfish' or other phrases to make them feel guilty for not caring about others.
According to Psychology Today, having good self-esteem may make it easier for one to spot a narcissist.
Narcissists are known to be manipulative, narcissistic, cunning, and dishonest.
They are also skilled at identifying their victims by assessing their weaknesses in order to exploit them.
Anyone who is vulnerable is susceptible to being taken advantage of by narcissists.
People with good self-esteem should be less susceptible to narcissists because they believe in themselves and their abilities.
However, some people with high self-esteem actually attract narcissists and get involved in narcissistic relationships.
Narcissists usually do not like confident and assertive people and will go out of their way to make others feel bad about themselves.
Don't Let Negative Words Get To You
It can be easy to allow words like "you're too small" or "you're not good enough" to take up space in your head and heart.
Let go of those words and embrace the truth: you are perfect just as you are. It's time to let go of those voices and free yourself from their grip on your confidence and happiness.
The words people use can have an impact on their day. Nowadays, individuals are more open with their feelings, and sometimes it is easy for one negative thought to turn into many.
Negative thoughts that people allow into their minds will affect them mentally and physically. Usually, what you think about yourself becomes a reality.
If a person chooses to focus on the negative aspects of themselves, they will likely end up feeling that way as well.
Learn To Ignore Haters and Bullies
When bullies attack, our natural reaction is to do the same. This never helps things. The best way to deal with a bully is to ignore them.
You'll feel better in yourself for not retaliating, and the bully will eventually give up their pursuit of you.
It's hard when someone throws insults at you, but they're just attacking because they're insecure about themselves. Remember that no one can hurt you unless you let them.
Haters and bullies are everywhere, but we mustn't let them affect our lives.
It is important to be able to see their hateful words for what they are: meaningless noise. We should not let the negative input of others change who we are.
People can be cruel, so it can be difficult to ignore them, but if people know that their words will only make us stronger, then there will always be a voice of strength against their negativity.
You Define Your Worth Not The Narcissist
You may be in a toxic relationship with a narcissist and not even know it. When we think of someone narcissistic, we might think of someone who entertains delusions of grandeur and believes they are entitled to special privileges.
They can often be emotionally abusive and controlling. Narcissists won't show empathy or feelings for others, including their victims. You might feel like you're living in a nightmare, but the good news is that you can get out of this toxic relationship!
Walk away from anyone who tries and brings you down.
Final Thoughts
In conclusion, those individuals who have a lot of self-esteem are less likely to be affected by narcissists, but those with poor self-esteem are more susceptible.
So if you have a lot of self-esteem, don't worry about being affected by a narcissist.
Don't let the negative influence affect your confidence and belief in yourself!
Work on boosting your self-esteem and resisting the urge to let comments from a narcissistic person reduce your opinion of yourself.
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