Do people, peace of mind, a blessing from the door

Anger, not only did not solve the problem, but will make the problem bigger and bigger, hurting others at the same time, but also hurting themselves.

As Lev Tolstoy said: "Anger makes others suffer, but the biggest victims are themselves."

Instead of letting your emotions control you, you should learn to control them.

When a person can control their emotions, peace of mind to deal with all unknown difficulties, that good luck will also slowly come.

Of those great people, none of them are the best in emotional management, calm, and easy to deal with things.

1, peace of mind: "grinding" out of the good temper

It is said: "life's difficulties are a grind, can make people more relaxed."

However, most people are not brave enough in front of difficulties, and they tend to lose control of their emotions and do unexpected things.

There is a kind of creature in the ocean called box triggerfish. Its body is like a box and its body is brightly colored, which is a kind of peculiar ornamental fish.

It has a fatal flaw, that is, once it thinks it is under attack and in danger, it will do its best to release a toxin to overcome the enemy.

Originally this is its way to save its life, but because it often "misjudged" the danger, in the absence of danger also moves out of the "killer", the results of their poisoning.

We are not like this when we lose our temper.

Always rely on the tolerance of their loved ones to their capriciousness, to vent their emotions on their loved ones, thinking that their loved ones will be infinitely tolerant of them, but do not think that the relationship can not stand again and again to hurt.

Over time, the relationship will naturally become more and more distant.

At any time, do not act impulsively, "killer" to the key time to use, "loved ones love" can not be consumed indiscriminately, some things lost can not be returned.

Most of the time, you think the emotions out of control are self-indulgent, the source of all negative emotions is their own, and the accumulation of more will naturally explode.

Instead of constantly suppressing emotions, it is better to learn to stabilize emotions and find the most suitable "way to get along" with each other by slowly rubbing together.

The hot temper, in time, will also be tempered, boil over, and grind out, and the temper will slowly become better.

Nothing is too much, if not, then continue to grind, persist, and eventually "grind" out a good temper.

2, a blessing from the door: "accumulation" out of good luck

Impatient heart coarse people, nothing, the heart and gas, a hundred blessings from the set.

Impatient nature, careless people, compared to the heart and gas people, not lose in the ability to work, but in the attitude to do things.

I once heard a story.

Two girls are running for the post of department leader.

The former is a big hit, workability is very strong and more aggressive; the latter works in the upper, for people to do more stability.

Originally the former promotion is the nail in the coffin, which had thought it would be ruined by lost love, her ex-boyfriend's sudden breakup so that her emotions were out of control, she quiet to work, always want to cry.

Originally the work was handled well, and no one will say anything, but she made a low-level mistake, to win back her ex-boyfriend, who missed work during working hours.

This makes the original good for her leadership is very disappointed, think she brought private emotions to work is very unprofessional, slowly moved her out of important positions.

The latter, although not a strong workability, victory is stable enough, no matter what happens, can calmly face, seriously looking for solutions to problems.

Every time she is instructed to work will be particularly serious to do, and will not be affected by personal feelings, in the public and private aspects of handling very well.

Later, she was promoted and became the new department head.

Although it is difficult to be a public and private person, but the things that can not be done within this part, make more excuses, will be interpreted as a failure of ability.

Many things to persist a little more, you will be able to see the light; not yet give up on efforts, you will only get failure.

If you can't control your emotions, you will be easily manipulated by them.

Learning to control emotions and deal with problems calmly is a sign of maturity.

Life road, there is no difficulty to go, step by step slowly, peace of mind, peace of mind, luck will naturally accumulate.

The future, not to lose time, not to lose yourself.

Reconcile with your emotions to be a better version of yourself.