Desire and energy

01

Everyone's desires and energy are inherently different.

People who have stronger desires will have relatively higher energy. For example, some people are very aggressive in the workplace and want to be leaders. If you look at those who are leaders, is not generally better physical energy, overtime, stay up late, worry about a lot of things, if you are a little less healthy people, simply exhausted.

So I find more and more, a person can have much achievement, "effort" may be the smallest dimensional conditions. Fundamentally, it still depends on a person's innate desire and energy, as well as the level of luck. Effort, there are prerequisites, provided you are in the right direction, and you have the energy to support your goals and desires, otherwise the harder you work, the worse it gets.

02

Low desire, low energy people, drink more inspirational chicken soup is useless, others' spur and pressure is also useless, because he does not have that thing innately.

At the same time, people with strong desire and high energy, if you suppress him, let him not to pursue, not to toss, then he will also be very painful, and those energy can not be dissipated, held in the body, will become toxic, physical and mental damage.

The illustrator of my first book, her mother recently told me that she had quit her job and was going to England in September to study children's picture books.

I wasn't very surprised.

I know her mother has always wanted her to stay in her current stable state. She has a master's degree in finance from Peking University, and after graduation, she worked in a particularly good central enterprise in the financial industry.

But I also know that she loves painting, is the kind of state with the whole life in love. She has talent and energy, but that energy has been forbidden and suppressed.

It's only a matter of time before it explodes.

03

When energy cannot support desire, it is the most painful and the most important time to reflect.

Last year I heard that a young friend was suffering from gout, and one of the big reasons was that he was eating a lot of meat and fish every day. In fact, this was his body reminding him that he should change his lifestyle and reduce his desire for food.

Some people are unhappy all the time and complain about everything. In fact, they also have low physical and mental energy but not low desire, so they are always in conflict and uneasy inside, and the whole body's qi is blocked, and they always have bad qi.

04

We are in an era of information redundancy and confusing energy fields.

Have you noticed that if you brush your phone all day, you will feel especially empty inside and your body will be very tired?

Because receiving too much complicated information and energy, your body can not absorb, mentally can not digest, and a lot of information online is negative. Negative, outlandish content is the most eye-catching and easy to spread.

Why do I deliberately make myself read less negative social news? Because I know it will damage my body and mind. I'm already an energy-depleted person, and if I stare at negative information all day long, it will continue to damage my mind and body, and I will get sick, and I won't be able to really calm down and do something worthwhile.

05

Everyone has his or her own energy field.

Some people, when you get close to them, will make you distracted and irritable. Be sure to trust your feelings and stay away from such friends.

Nowadays, many people have lost the ability to be aware. Compelled by the values of consumerism and extreme utilitarianism, they think they will be happy if they have a lot of money and buy very expensive things.

In reality, ask your own heart, do you have inner peace? Are you happy? What is the source of your happiness?

06

I think it is courageous to be able to face your desires honestly.

It is wisdom to be aware of your energy all the time and to use it wisely.

In recent years I have had times when my mind is in turmoil and I feel anxious. Whenever such moments occur, I don't blame myself harshly, I know that my energy is low and that the relationship between energy and desire is no longer harmonious.

When my heart is in turmoil, my way of healing is to go for a walk in the mountains, where there is stillness. Or read the books of the ancients, who had a quiet and soothing aura, that is the spiritual wealth left in ancient China.

07

In fact, babies are most sensitive to the energy field.

So we try not to let our children go to places where there are many people and where the breath is disturbed. Only after my child was 5 months old did I carry her downstairs to sit. She would cry when she saw a stranger, and many people said she was timid and tried to make her laugh, but I refused.

Babies don't need to socialize, they don't need to please adults, she just needs the arms of her parents, a quiet and pleasant family atmosphere.

08

Cheating can also be explained from the perspective of desire and energy.

There is a category of people that have the gene for cheating, and this gene is characterized by a high level of lust and energy.

But not all people with high lust and energy will cheat. Some people can manage their desires and energy more rationally, such as having demands on their personality, or the cost of cheating is higher. Some people just choose to swing for the fences.

Moral judgments don't work for them.

The important thing is that if you seek a high quality emotional life, learn to identify