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Comparisons keep us going! Hard work is the attitude of life!

On the road of life, the pursuit of dreams let us go in a hurry, unwilling to stop the pace of forward. So in the process of hard work, we sometimes feel tired, lost, lonely, depressed...... But do not dare to stop, for fear of stopping, they will be stagnant, unable to achieve their own ideals.

By XuChaRmPublished 2 years ago 4 min read
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On the road of life, the pursuit of dreams let us go in a hurry, unwilling to stop the pace of forward. So in the process of hard work, we sometimes feel tired, lost, lonely, depressed...... But do not dare to stop, for fear of stopping, they will be stagnant, unable to achieve their own ideals.

Why not turn life into an experience, an experience. Life is a journey, along the way, we can not guess will be to meet what kind of scenery, no omen of where the destination, but the pace of progress has always been unable to stop, because time does not allow us to stay anywhere, only in the forward continue to learn to choose, learn to experience, learn to appreciate.

It doesn't matter if the IQ is high, and the EQ is not high, but the pattern of life must be large. To put it bluntly, you can not be smart, you can not understand communication, but must be atmospheric.

If a little frustration let you climb up, if a bad word or two, let you can't let go, if you hate people, hate people, that pattern is too small.

How big a man is, how successful he will be. Because mind, is the sign of success. Remember a word: the harder you work, the luckier you are.

Put down your impetuous, put down your laziness, put down your three minutes of heat, empty your brain can not help but temptation, let go of your easy to be attracted by anything eyes, put light you want to talk about what two gossip mouth.

Calm down to do what you should do, it's time to work hard! Sometimes when you really work hard, you will find that you are much better than you imagined.

In the world except life and death, other is small. No matter what troubles you encounter, don't embarrass yourself; No matter how bad things happen today, don't be disappointed in life, because there is always tomorrow.

People with goals are running, people without goals are wandering, because they don't know where to go! Those who have goals are grateful, those who have no goals are complaining, because they think the whole world owes him! People who have goals can't sleep, people who don't have goals can't wake up, because they don't know what to do! Life only comes out of the wonderful, not waiting for the brilliant!

Have you thought about it? Where is the motivation that keeps the so-called social achievers running? Success, wealth? They will not claim it all; The realization of self-worth? The meaning of life? It's kind of big and ethereal.

The most naked anatomy is actually: after getting rid of the trouble of food and clothing, people begin to look for self-proof, and the beginning and end of proof is - comparison.

For this social animal, comparison is the source of almost all unhappiness and happiness. From birth to death, we always live in comparison, than grades, than education, than promotion, than garage, than who the relationship is harder, than who the object is more beautiful, than who the child is more prospective. Yu Minhong said to his classmates: If nothing can be compared, I will try to live longer than you.

One consequence of this comparison is that we often have an irrational fear of the future, nominally about the depreciation of our assets, the education of our children, medical care for our old age, but in essence, the fear of being worse off in the future.

The second result of the comparison is that we can't accept falling behind. We always feel that the footsteps around us are rumbling and someone is constantly overtaking us. We dare not stop for fear of becoming a laggard who eats dust, or a weak one who is mocked or pitied.

The third result of comparison is that we are constantly trying to make others respect us, constantly brushing our screens with achievements to remind us of our existence. We can't even remember what kind of person we want to be. The so-called ideal is all about imagining being someone else.

The fourth result of comparison is this innumerable tearing. More and more, we find the beauty and importance of things other than our career, work and achievements, but we can't stand the stimulation brought by comparison. So we run and look back, always thinking of making up for something, always thinking that the next stop is the end.

Really to the next station, often become a new starting point.

This may be a period of class history, before or since, that may not be experienced on such a large scale.

If you feel yourself very hard at this time, then tell yourself: easy to go downhill! Hold on, because you are going uphill, go through, you will make progress.

If you are complaining about fate, please remember: life, is the excuse for failure; Transport is the humble words of successful people.

Hard work is the attitude of life! Comparison will make life go further!

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XuChaRm

Running with a smile, losing, looking for, but remind me that tomorrow is better.

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