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Change, please start today

Take action and change begins today

By mistliPublished 2 years ago 6 min read
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Habit is an important factor in success in life. Good habits make people successful, bad habits make people decadent. Psychological counseling experts found that a person's work, study is good or bad, 20% and intelligence factors related, 80% and non-intelligence factors related, and in confidence, will, habits, interests, personality and other non-intelligence factors, habits and occupy an important position. There was a test where three people were asked to do the same thing, and the results were very different depending on the work habits of each person. Around us, such examples are numerous. Good habits allow us to reduce the time for thinking, simplify the steps of action, and make us more efficient; Bad habits make us closed, conservative, self-righteous, and conformist. However, in the face of bad habits in our lives, the power of our habits to cling to the norm has greater control over us than the power to pursue change.

If you look closely, most of us are already used to who we used to be. Most of our daily activities are just habits, such as what time to wake up, how to shower, brush our teeth, dress, read the newspaper, eat breakfast, drive to work, etc. There are hundreds of habits played out in a single day. So it's worth taking a closer look at your habits. See what is helpful, what is not helpful, what is harmful, and then change the useless, harmful to beneficial, even a small change, over time, will benefit infinitely. Remember, with the habit of success, we have a lifetime of wealth to enjoy. Take action, change begins today...

The crow was about to fly to the east when he met a dove and stopped to rest in a tree. The dove saw the crow fly very hard and asked with concern, "Where are you going?" Crow angrily said: "In fact, I don't want to leave, but the residents of this place are disliking my cry is not good, so I want to fly to other places to go." The pigeon calmly told the crow: "Then I advise you not to waste your efforts! If you don't change your voice, you won't be welcome anywhere. If you can't change your environment, the only way is to change yourself. If you don't want to do it, you will find an excuse; If you want to do it, you'll find a way!"

Goethe said, "It is better not to dream when the sun is setting, but to act when the sun is rising." Change should be early, not just in the mouth, delay action, in the end, wasted life, nothing to achieve.

A knowledgeable professor lived next door to an illiterate man. Although TWO PEOPLE POSITION GREAT DISPARITY, KNOWLEDGE LEVEL, CHARACTER HAS WORLD OF DIFFERENCE, BUT TWO PEOPLE HAVE a COMMON GOAL: GET RICH AS SOON AS POSSIBLE.

Every day, the professor crossed his legs and talked about how he had become rich. The illiterate listened to him religiously. He admired the professor's knowledge and intelligence very much and began to realize his idea of becoming rich according to the professor.

Several years later, the illiterate became a millionaire, and the professor was still talking about his theory of getting rich.

Some people will say, I really want to change the situation immediately, but the surrounding environment is so, not allowed, no way! He must have forgotten: a person in the face of the environment can not change, he must learn to change himself, he changed, the environment will change. There is a Western proverb: "Survival depends on the ability to change." Many people are often on the one hand want to change the status quo, on the other hand are afraid of suffering, the result of their own conflict and struggle, toss a big circle and circle back to the beginning. Change is painful, but if it doesn't change, it will be more painful. The story of Cheese has taken root with the success of Who Moved My Cheese? Anyone who has read the book knows the truth reflected in the book is that the world is constantly evolving and changing, and so is everyone. To adapt to a changing society, we must change, and change must start today, right away, from ourselves, from every little thing. That's how you get ahead!

It is believed that everyone knows what "cheese" they are looking for, and the most important thing is how to find our own cheese, how to face the cheese that we already have and may lose at any time. There will always be change, whether it is good or bad, we must accept it, and the good or bad of change often depends on one's ability to adapt, that is, whether you are prepared enough or not. When you see that change will make things better, adjust yourself to the change! No matter how we choose, it should change with the change of the outside world, every day, are in accordance with the trend of change. Psychologist Anthony Robin says, "All change can be made immediately." People's attitude to the question of "change" is often "should" rather than "must", and if it is, it is often "someday" in the future. The only way to change right away is to keep the urgency in your mind that you can't not do it soon. How do you make yourself willing to change? One way to do this is to allow your emotions to reach a painful point where you feel like you can't change them without a moment's notice. To be successful, change is not to know that you have to change, but to know that you have to change. If you've tried to change over and over again without success, the reason is probably that the pain you're trying to change hasn't reached a point where you can't stand it, and only when you've reached that point will the leverage to change appear.

As a professional, you can start to change today. Here are Carnegie's four good work habits, starting little by little:

1. Remove all the papers from your desk, leaving only the ones that are relevant to the problem you are working on;

2. Do things in order of priority;

3. When you come across a problem, if you have to make a decision, solve it on the spot, don't hesitate;

4. Learn how to organize, stratify and supervise your work so that you can complete the work within the effective time.

If you have any or more of these "10 bad habits that hinder your success," you must start to change them today: ② no concept of time; ③ Distraction of attention; (4) Resistance; ⑤ Speaking, doing more nervous, forgetful; ⑥ do things by hand; ⑦ Eating and talking loudly on the phone; ⑧ Inappropriate body language; ⑨ Poor handwriting and grammatical errors; ⑩ Go against professional habits. These changes are small, but if you take action today and force yourself to change these bad habits over the long term, you will develop the good habits necessary for success and give yourself the confidence that "I can do it, I can do it". The benefits will gradually become apparent in your future career. Don't be timid, don't hesitate, take action, change begins today...

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