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Be reliable to give power

Reliable people, not simply by verbal promises, but to make people from the heart of trust.

By Michael M JonesPublished 2 years ago 4 min read
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Life on the road, we will meet a lot of people, but there are few truly reliable.

Some people seem to be reliable, but the reality is that they have an honest and reliable appearance, but no real substance to speak of.

Although reliable, unreliable contact for a long time will be clear, but a little inattentive or will be deceived, into the self-righteous reliability.

However, time will prove who can be trusted and who cannot be trusted.

When you become reliable yourself, you will naturally attract more people close to you in the same way.

1.

The most fearful work encounters unreliable colleagues, usually, nothing to hand over on the work is okay, the most fearful is to work closely with their handover, once the other irresponsible to give up, the first victim is bound to be their own.

I have tried to stay up late to help colleagues who suddenly took leave to do their work, the original, there is no complaint to say, after all, others are temporary things to take time off, and not intentionally.

But then I found out that she did it on purpose, in order not to save the draft in advance, to the day to take leave to pretend that something happened at home.

If I didn't happen to hear her talking to a friend, I'm afraid it's hard to find out the truth.

The work is a part of the job, and finding excuses to shirk it seems irresponsible.

There is a two, a long time, the people around you naturally know which set you play, and then want to fool people is very difficult.

Once people are set on the "unreliable" mark will not be trusted, will not be arranged to the important project, and will gradually be marginalized, afraid that it is difficult to promote and raise salary.

Someone said: "Reliable, is the foundation of the body."

Deeply convinced.

A person is not reliable, often from its words and actions can be found.

Reliable people are very responsible, have self-control, and empathy, and will not do unkind and unjust things because of selfishness.

But whatever you ask him to do, he can help you handle it properly.

Think about the existence of such a person around you, would not it be a lot of peace of mind?

I don't know when I can meet it, but we can choose to be the one who is reliable first.

With their strength, practice dependability.

2.

Dependability is linked to "luck".

The more reliable a person is, the more trust he can get from others.

Especially in the workplace, reliable people are always particularly favored and can get more opportunities than others.

Once read a story about it.

There are two equally talented young people, whose work ability is very strong, but along with the exposure to the work content more and more core, around actually began to appear rival companies sent scouts.

An asked B: "If the other side offers a lot of money to buy you, you will not be moved ah."

B said, "Earning this kind of money at a loss will fold the blessing, there is no need to violate your conscience."

Later, A defected from the company with the core content and went to a rival company as a director.

And B is to continue to stay in the original company, even after the core content was A away, save the whole company.

At that time, others sigh B was reliable, but also said he was stupid, and did not take advantage of the opportunity to earn a fortune.

But the facts prove that B is right, good people will be rewarded.

Ten years later, the successful success of the hand of B met on the way to become a jobless A, the original A's perfidy did bring him a momentary benefit, but unreliable people this is also remembered, no one dared to give him important projects, over time naturally marginalized, the first batch of dismissed.

You see, unreliable people will not be trusted, and then hard work is difficult to get recognition.

Therefore, do not lose trust easily because of the momentary gain or loss of interest, so that the loss may be the future.

The word "reliable" is easy to say, but difficult to do.

But firm belief, and step-by-step practice, will eventually become a habit deep in the bones.

3.

Life is long, what kind of person to be, by their own decision.

If you can choose to be a good person, and why should you be a bad person?

If you can choose to be a reliable person, why not be reliable?

If you can choose to be a hard-working person, why do you want to be lazy?

You know the answer in your heart, just do not want to admit it.

Then why not ignore the answer in your heart and try to be a better person, even if it is more painful and tiring, persistence is victory.

All the good you insist on will eventually come back to you.

If you are reliable enough, then you can get the same "luck".

It is not easy to be reliable, but the future is promising.

However, letting people feel reliable is time work, often need to go through the test of months and months, to get each other's trust, otherwise, too much thought is useless.

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