A marriage that only considers money is absurd, and a marriage that does not consider money is foolish

There's a line in 《Pride and Prejudice》:

"A marriage that only thinks about money is absurd. A marriage that doesn't think about money is stupid."

Real marriage, can not be separated from the spiritual support of mutual trust, more can not be separated from the material basis of fuel, rice, oil and salt.

Money is the most indispensable thing in marriage, dare not talk about money marriage is difficult to be happy for a long time.

A good marriage is about talking about money and spending it.

Good marriage, is dare to spend the husband's money.

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Some people say: "Married to a rich family to talk about money, married to no money family to talk about money."

That's what marriage is all about.

Fang Qingzhuo, a famous performing artist, was devoted to her acting career when she was young, but she didn't talk much to her husband about making money and spending money.

After marriage, Fang Qingzhuo's career has not been on the right track, not only can't earn money, even often "post money", and the life of fuel, rice, oil and salt and everywhere need money, husband and wife two people because of money always quarrel.

At one point, the husband blew up:

"If you don't make money and still spend it, you can't live on. Let's get a divorce!"

Her marriage ended after only six months because of disagreements about money.

Don't talk about money marriage, often because of the lack of enough trust, and eventually to break up.

On the contrary, talking about money properly doesn't hurt your relationship. It can actually lubricate it.

When my aunt first got married, she was too shy to talk about money with her husband, so much so that most of the family expenses were spent out of her own money, and my brother-in-law, who is naive and simple, never noticed this.

Long time, money is short, and it is difficult to talk to her husband, so anxious that she almost cried.

Finally, one day, she gathered her courage. At the table and uncle said the cost of living.

Let her not expect, uncle is very generous promise, after every month will take out half of the salary as home spending, the rest of the money as entertainment expenditure.

This commitment has been maintained to this day. My aunt and uncle have been happily married.

I have heard a saying: "A good marriage is never a single choice, neither without love, nor without money."

Happy marriage, will put money on the table, open talk.

And unhappy marriage, usually to money is silent, emergency is contradictory.

Willing to talk about money, is truly delivered life; If you know how to talk about money, you'll make your marriage work better.

Only talk about money marriage, is a transaction; And don't talk about money marriage, is a kind of casual.

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Host Tu Lei said:

"Money is not the only test of true love, but it can measure the depth of affection."

A woman's greatest trust in marriage is to dare to spend her husband's money.

The love story between Qian Zhongshu and Yang Jiang is still talked about.

They urge each other in their career, and separate you from me in life.

At the end of 1979, Qian Zhongshu's "Guantaper Compilation" was published, and he received a large sum of money for it.

Take a count, fully 8000 yuan! It's a huge sum of money, no doubt. It's a big surprise.

When Qian received the money, he was so happy that he did something unexpected.

He found two bags, divided the money in half, put it in his pocket, and was about to take Yang Jiang to the mall.

"Come on, come on, let's be rich again!" Qian Zhongshu, 69, is as happy as a child.

He wanted to spend the money he earned on his beloved wife.

Yang Jiang didn't even bother to follow him to the mall.

Qian Zhongshu has absolute trust in his wife and is never stingy, while Yang Jiang is also comfortable spending her husband's money.

One is willing to give, the other dare to spend, money has become the best way to show their love.

There is a joke on the Internet that reads as meaningful: "Why does a wife use her husband's money?"

The answer is: the word "husband" upside down is "¥", the husband in turn is read" pay the bill ".

This suggests that the husband's money is as much a part of the marriage as the wife's contribution to the family.

Between husband and wife, only the division of labor is different, there is no difference.

Dare not spend her husband's money, the heart must be full of unease, marriage may also have a skeptical attitude.

Dare to spend her husband's money, a woman must be full of inner security, this is the greatest trust in marriage.

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The love story between Tu Youyou and her husband Li Tingzhao in the TV drama "Merit" is touching.

There is a scene, the husband Li Tingzhao to go to the cadre school to study, before leaving, he put an iron box into his wife's hands.

That box contained nothing but their only worldly possessions.

He only took 20 yuan as a reserve and left the rest to Tu.

He also gave his wife a detailed plan of where to spend the money.

Tu Youyou was deeply moved. She spent everything on herself and took care of her family.

In order to have a little more money for her family, she has to be careful with her budget.

Men are willing to give money to their wives, women can be considerate of their husbands is not easy, such a marriage to ebb and flow, mutual support.

In 1906, Lu Ying, the daughter of Lu Jingxi, a great salt merchant in Yangzhou, married Zhang Wuling, who was at the helm of the Zhang family, one of the four major families in Hefei.

Heard Lu Ying intelligent and capable, just married not long, Zhang Wuling will be assured bold financial power to her, family affairs are taken care of by her hand.

In the face of Zhang's wealth, Lu Ying, who has a tutor and self-cultivation, does not have a half point of greed.

She took on the responsibility of being the head of the household, keeping a careful record of the money coming in and the money going out, and keeping a tidy schedule of household chores.

Not only did her husband Zhang Wuling admire her, but her elders also spoke highly of her. Even the servants of the Zhang family loved her.

Under Lu Ying's management, the Zhang family's business is getting better and better, and the couple's affection is becoming stronger and stronger.

"Happiness in marriage depends on your partner's attitude toward you," Zhang said.

A man who is generous to his wife will not haggle over trifles.

A woman who is not greedy for money has a big right and wrong in her chest.

Only a man who is not mean can be worthy of a woman who is not greedy. Only a man who is not mean can be worthy of a good marriage.

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Good marriage, half due to love, half due to reality.

A couple's attitude toward money often reflects the true nature of the family.

How well you handle your money can make all the difference between a happy marriage and even whether it lasts.

Dare to talk to each other about money, is the feeling of certainty, is also a brave responsibility;

Dare to spend each other's money, is the inner confidence, but also the greatest trust in marriage.

Men are not mean, women are not greedy, is the most beautiful appearance of marriage.

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