What's Your Name?
The trauma and the changing of a name
Leave me. Let me go. Don't worry.
Your baby girl, she's gonna be fine
Didn't need anything from you except a dollar and a dime
A dozen years, times two. That's how log I lived without you
The heart of stone trying to teach gold to shine
When you sequestered your own light before I was a twinkle in your eye and never let yourself be a real human on the outside
Living vicariously, my life stolen from me
To become you, the image you saw for yourself but you caged your mind and checked your voice
I have mine, because I put in the time, I opened my wounds
Every single one. Funny, most of them came from you
"Are you seeing the therapist? Talking to someone? Why don't you ever want to come home?"
The audacity of the abuser, to blame the victim, over and over again
Because it was always MY fault you got screwed over
By life, but the last time I checked we adults are supposed to take responsibility, or is that just something you say to brighten your day, make you feel like everything's ok, you're teaching them good you're teaching them right, they'll grow up strong because they grew up without a fight
But when you sucker-punch us in our soul
Steal the spark from our eyes
We grow up knowing, you're the one we actually despise
You're never wrong, it's never your fault, we're never good enough no matter what
How dare I make you accountable when you want your butt in the mud and head in the clouds because blindness and staying where you are is like a pig in ignorant bliss
One day you'll miss us and we'll wave goodbye down the dirt path
Through thickets and thorns, never look back
Because that house you call a home was a borrowed momento, a temporary hold, until we break free of your mortal talons and our life is finally
Our own. And I can make myself whatever I want to be
Never the spitting image, or honor thy mother, father or their name
I don't know what my new name is yet, but luckily in time yours I'll forget
About the Creator
Sadie Hirsch
Mystical creative who writes, dreams, dances and sings
Breast Cancer survivor at 35, grateful for each day I'm alive
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