I tell people that
I'm clumsy
when my small sip
of morning coffee
becomes rubble staining
the floor they just cleaned.
always cleaning up
after me.
my mess
gets everywhere.
my shirt is
a used napkin.
so, I’m the mess.
"Oh, I’m such a mess!"
and we laugh about that.
I insist on
picking up the pieces.
the room becomes
three times bigger
when I hear,
"Be careful."
always reminding me
to pay attention.
I'm so wary
of attention.
it’s obvious
to everyone
when I’m not aware
except me
who’s not aware.
"Don’t worry. I'm
Just getting the
Big pieces first."
and we’re cool with that.
I tell people that
I'm clumsy
to explain my relief
when everything
is clean, again.
and they sit back
down to relax.
there’s a cut on my palm,
a shard in my foot,
and I’m tired again.
after a sip of coffee.
but I can deal.
"You hungry?"
"I could eat."
and we agree on that.
I tell people that
I'm clumsy
to lower expectations
after the clinking of plates
gives me vertigo. I dread
the fall of a dropped fork
and dropped food. and how
falling leads to
dropped conversations. and
maybe I should just drop
dinner.
I can barely
drink coffee
and now
I have to eat a meal…
I wish I had
the stomach for it.
"How much do you want?"
"I'm thinkin' like...tapas?"
and we chuckle over that.
I tell people that
I'm clumsy
so they forgive me when
I spill all over their
favorite things. best friends.
trips. get togethers.
parties. events. plans.
"I'm good. I don't need
help getting up."
and I do. but
we move on from that.
so, I can deal.
I tell people that
I'm clumsy
so they don't feel bad
when I need the sound
of my shattering
to reach an ear. when
I call and they
don't pick up. and
don't call back. or
text or help me
gather myself because
"Bro. You're such a mess."
and we didn't laugh that time.
so before they can ask
I tell people
"Sorry. Butt dial."
so I can…
you know. 'cause...
that's the deal.
About the Creator
Stratusfier
I love improving at crafts that lead to strong relationships and impact in my community. The difficulty of being neurodivergent is the toil of working constantly for understanding. For myself and others. I hope to be a bridge for that work.
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