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Cup of Tea

By Shirley BelkPublished 3 years ago • 1 min read

I think I'll just have a cup of tea and tell the world to kiss off!

Apparently, I am not at all the tea they thought I should be...

But that's going to have to be okay. See, I can't be anybody but me!

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Narcissistic? Aren't we all just a bit or more to some degree?

The way that word is pushed around is grating on my nerves...

We do what we can to survive, after all. No matter who it serves!

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If we all had to wear the very same shoes in this game called life...

Well, what a pretty picture we could paint...there would be no strife!

But, my dears, we don't. So, I take my tea strong, hot, and sweet!

(Just like me, you see!)

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This is what happened when I googled the "difference:"

Certainly! Let’s explore the difference between having a self-surviving personality and being a narcissist.

These terms are related but distinct:

Self-Surviving Personality:

A self-surviving personality refers to someone who prioritizes their own well-being, safety, and survival. It’s a healthy trait that allows individuals to take care of themselves, set boundaries, and make choices that promote their own health and security.

Self-surviving individuals recognize their needs and act in ways that protect them without necessarily harming others. They can be assertive, but they also consider the well-being of those around them.

Narcissism:

Narcissism, on the other hand, is a personality trait characterized by excessive self-love, self-centeredness, and an inflated sense of importance.

In summary, while self-surviving individuals prioritize their well-being without harming others, narcissists exhibit self-centeredness, lack empathy, and often manipulate those around them.

Understanding these distinctions helps us recognize healthy self-care versus problematic narcissistic behavior 1234.

Learn more:

1) psychologytoday.com

2) believeinmind.com

3) blog.mindvalley.com

4) psychcentral.com

Mental Health

About the Creator

Shirley Belk

Mother, Nana, Sister, Cousin, & Aunt who recently retired. RN (Nursing Instructor) who loves to write stories to heal herself and reflect on all the silver linings she has been blessed with :)

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    Written by Shirley Belk