Instead of pleasing others, we should enrich ourselves

Life is one life, grass and trees are one autumn. Flowers have a re-blooming day, people are no longer young.

Do not waste your time on meaningless things, do not spend your energy on pleasing others.

01.

The years have a cycle, the birth of the endless. And life is not never, life is valuable. What kind of life, is the best?

Do not choose comfort at the age of struggle, live yourself in the good years, do not disappoint sincerity, and do not deliberately please others. Enrich yourself and enrich your life.

Get out of the house, broaden your horizons, open your eyes, and experience the greatness of our country.

Bring a touch of greenery, cultivate an interest, dill flowers and plants, repair hedges and plant chrysanthemums, lift hoes to the mountains and plow the fields.

Read a good book, to enlighten the wisdom, warm the soul, cultivate the sentiment, and let the soul in the ink sublimation. Let the years flow in the chapters, let the watery years in the fragrance of the book rich.

We can not extend the length of life, can broaden the thickness of life.

Grab the tail of time, armed with knowledge, with the knowledge to open the mind, with the knowledge to decorate life, with wisdom to reach life.

Time is easy to pass away, life is easy to grow old. Do not waste your time, do not waste your time, and do not let yourself down.

Let life be rich in the years, and let time be colorful in life.

02.

The wisdom of the people knows how to do their sun, their light, glowing heat, rather than chasing light all the way.

A wise person knows how to improve himself, enrich his thoughts, and enrich his heart, rather than just trying to please others.

The meaning of living is to become the best version of yourself, to live as the best model, and not to grovel and be obsequious.

In life, have you ever had the experience of being other-centered and thinking of others in every way? Always care about others, but ignore themselves.

In work or life, when you encounter others who need help, you do not know how to properly refuse, afraid that others are not happy, afraid that others will alienate you.

Have you ever felt this way: care a lot about other people's evaluation or opinion of themselves, to get the approval of others, a lot of catering to others, accommodate others?

Afraid of having no friends, afraid of being called an alien, and not fitting in. Always want to fit in with others, just to avoid the attack of the mouth. Only to let others say that people are good.

To win the goodwill of others, and spare no effort to please others. But in the end, in addition to giving yourself a tired, there is no point.

And in the process of pleasing others, have long lost themselves.

In fact, instead of pleasing others, it is better to enrich yourself.

03.

Of all the responsibilities in the world, the most fundamental one is to truly become yourself and live out your unique personality and values.

Indeed, in social relations, we are first of all ourselves, and in turn, in our participation in social relations, we are part of a social group.

In essence, uphold your nature and bring into play your unique style of doing things. We do not follow the crowd and do not follow the clouds. Only then will you not be caught in the stream of people who are in cahoots, and only then will you be able to maintain righteousness full of integrity.

In the intricacies of personnel, to have their principles and bottom line, not humble, not overbearing, not overly pleasing, and not deliberately detached.

Especially in the workplace, get along with people, be rational themselves, rather than losing themselves, living in the world of others, which is tantamount to puppets.

Be your own master. Have your ideas, interests, and insights about things.

In this world, even the smallest life has its value in existence. No matter what kind of person, all have their strengths and unique charm. Every tiny thing has its meaning.

Don't trample on a small plant, the grass grows and the world becomes beautiful. Don't despise anyone, there are three of us.

Do not use your humility to pad the toe of others, do not please others in a way that gains favor and friendship.

Don't let your feelings be based on pleasing, that will only deepen your humility.

The useless socializing can not be involved, and the relationship that needs to be maintained by pleasing can be abandoned. The most important thing in this life is to manage yourself well.

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If the flowers bloom, the butterflies will come. If you are good, others will follow you.

You don't need to depend on anyone, you don't need to please others. Be your ferryman and be a one-man show for others.

The relationship that you attract with your personality is soothing and real.

When a thousand sails are over, you will know the world and the human condition. Don't overestimate your relationship with anyone, don't underestimate the sinister nature of human nature.

Life is expensive, abandon humility, and put away pleasing. Pick up a paintbrush to paint your dull life with a splash of color, so that life is rich and interesting.

To their own life to hand in a satisfactory answer sheet, rather than let the days go by, bumbling, at the end of a blank sheet of paper, leaving only an empty dream, alone sad intestines.

In life, it is better to enrich yourself than to please others.

At a certain time, sink your heart and think about where your life is going, in the workplace, refine your business and improve your skills.

Find a quiet place in your life, put your nurturing in a foot of Shu brocade embroidery, and let your leisure and relaxation superimpose a tranquil and transcendent state of mind.

The path is simple, and the enlightenment is in the sky.

"Don't chase a horse, you spend the time chasing a horse to plant grass. When the flowers bloom in spring, there will naturally be a herd of horses for you to choose from."

When you know how to enrich yourself, your heart is full and confident, and every word and action will project the taste of sunshine.

The people you want to see will come, and what you want will be there.

The world is a living, do not care too much about the eyes of others, do not care too much about gossip, do not need to get the approval of others. You can also be the best you can be.