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When life is down and out, dare to toss yourself

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By Matthew A LamPublished 2 years ago 6 min read
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Poor, will let a person be looked down upon, will let a person live in straitened circumstances, will let a person in front of people even talk about the bottom.

When people are poor, they are always looking for various reasons, some, complaining that life is not as good as it should be, complaining about the end, after whining, chagrin, and then willingly accepting the fate of the arrangement, continue to be a frog boiled in warm water, a lifetime so helplessly lived, rather than to change the way of life, to improve themselves.

For their own poor, looking for reasons, in fact, anyone can find out a lot, because the opportunity is not enough, because they did not meet Burberry, because there is no environment ......

However, life is very realistic, life must be pragmatic, more excuses, more reasons, can not change your predicament, only to try to find opportunities to toss themselves, even if they are bruised and battered, can not retreat.

Because, when you are poor, no one is willing to take care of you, no one is willing to make friends with you, you go everywhere the people are small, ignored, and can not be in the crowd.

As the saying goes: trees move to death, and people move to live. Life's road is their way out, a person who is not willing to toss, the opportunity to come and can not catch, is more qualified to say that life is no opportunity, no way to go before the eyes.

People are not afraid of being poor, afraid is actually convinced to accept such a reality, and do not take the initiative to change.

There is no way out of the world, only people who are not willing to walk, when life is down, there is a way to go, that is, stick to the end, dare to toss.

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The poorer you are, the more you know how to silently "toss" yourself.

When people are poor, don't find reasons to resign yourself to fate, but to resign yourself to defeat and grit your teeth to persevere, if you resign yourself to fate, it will never turn around.

Life a lifetime, there are many valleys, do not be frustrated, because the period before the dawn is the darkest, and so across that period, it will be able to usher in the dawn, to the low period, to toss themselves more, good at giving up, subtracting for themselves, and then light; to dare to trial and error, bear the blow, and then closer to success.

When people are poor, they will be afraid of their heads, afraid of this and that, afraid to pay, the result in hesitation in the missed opportunities; scared to do anything, stick to the rules, the result is nothing, life is not satisfactory everywhere.

You should know that the more you settle for life, the easier it is to become mediocre.

In life, there is no effortless success, not to mention the fate of the unchangeable, only afraid to toss the idea, to create a hotbed of poverty. When faced with repeated difficulties, strong people give themselves firm beliefs, find the right direction, and then start tossing, step by step tossing down, turning danger into peace, and then turning over.

The ancients have said: poor is change, change is pass, the pass is long. Many times, people are poor because they are too stubborn, always keep a road to black, do not know how to adapt, and do not know how to toss, so they will be poor and mediocre.

In fact, for the poor, the most terrible thing is not to pay no return, but even they do not know where to pay, because they can not find the direction and are confused.

Life is in motion, a good life lies in the toss, when you in order to reach the possibility of life, let yourself eat more suffering, suffer more pressure, jump out of comfort, in the future, to harvest more.

There is no shortcut to success, pay the effort, and know how to toss, and only then will there be a harvest.

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The poorer you are, the more you should know not to casually ask for "begging".

Poor people are better than ghosts, tea is not as light as water, asking people is better than asking yourself, and relying on people is always better than relying on themselves, this is a very realistic perception.

People are poor, to have self-awareness, do not easily beg, because this time, many feelings because you are poor have deteriorated.

People in the most difficult time, do not show their plight in front of relatives and friends, to ask them to help you, because they will not only not give you any help, but will fall into the stone, or worse, will let more people know your predicament.

You are poor, have no money, you beg others to borrow money, and many people are not willing to lend you, it is because you do not have confidence in your ability to repay debts, and are afraid that you will not be able to repay, to put it bluntly, is that you will be poor for life.

Nowadays, people are very realistic, there is no free service to help people, there is an exchange of prices, either you pay, or you also have others to use, otherwise, everything is free. When you are poor, ask people to do things, have no money to pay, and have no use of value, others naturally will not help you.

Poor, not terrible, terrible is their loss of ambition, when people are poor, any relationship is unreliable, so do not have the illusion of easily begging people, people poor will not be poor. On this poor and lonely road, do not ask for company, do not ask for help, just a person step by step, one foot after another, you will find the way although difficult, but closer and closer to the goal.

In this world, some people are poor for a while, but some people are poor for life because different choices cause different results.

When people are poor, they have the opportunity to see through the hearts and minds of the true and false, to understand the reality of warm and cold, to see through the world, to see the cruelty of society, sober, comprehended, understand, the opportunity to fight by themselves; fate by their grasp, tears teach you to be strong, disappointed to help you grow, pain teaches you to work hard, must be their line, life can line, or rely on who can not.

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