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Walk and stop, that's life

People are most like a person only when they are idle.

By Timothy J CarrierPublished 2 years ago 4 min read
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Real life is busy, need to run for three meals a day, while the time after work is their own, is at their disposal.

How well a person lives is not a matter of how successful his career is, but of his life after work.

In short, living well, like a person, is hidden in the life after work, hidden in the time of leisure.

The joy of being a human being is not to put yourself as hard as a robot, but to find time to do what you like after work.

In the pursuit of fast-paced, take the time to slow down and feel life, and cherish the people, things, and things around you.

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Some people say: "while young we should work harder, do not always think about going out to play, there is this time is better to find more things to do, and properly accumulate experience, now hard enough, later to have the bottom to find a good job."

Work is indeed to work hard, just spare time also need to have their own life.

If you live every day in two lines, either in the company, or in the rental house, every day in addition to work or work, it is true that people can grow quickly, but a boring life and continuous overtime will make the whole state becomes bad, not only health problems, even the psychological "disease".

I've seen programmers who stay up all night and work overtime for a month, pale, unkempt, feeling ready to faint, think about their high wages, think about their hair, think about their "autism", and feel that the money is not the average person can earn.

In addition, there is another kind of "fast" pace of effort in the workplace.

Once met a leader, he is the kind of person who hates to stay in the company 24 hours a day, always tells us that they have accumulated several months of vacation did not take, and finally expired, hinting at us to learn from him, try not to rest, have time to put more on the work.

I thought he was working hard, but after a long time together, I found that he was pretending to work hard, walking to the store during the day, looking for people to chat, with every day until almost the end of the day to arrange work, standing behind us to stare at our work, the name is to accompany us, but in reality, is just pretending to show the boss.

However, he pretended to believe in himself, always bragging that the company can not leave him, but then the company's business is not good, the first batch of layoffs is him, any of his entanglements are by the procedures dismissed, and later heard that he went to several companies, just used to use the old set of pretending efforts, but did not make any achievements, and finally made the worse the mix.

In the workplace, no one is irreplaceable, pretend to do "fast" rhythm, muddy water pretend to work hard, get is miserable with water experience, in a company open, does not mean that in the next one as well open.

Efforts to get down to earth, and faking are self-destructive.

Whether it is pretending to be busy, or busy, don't forget about life because of work.

Although the workplace and life can not be completely separate, do not push yourself too tight, too busy, or tired of your own, is to earn how much money can not make up for it, life will have to be relaxed and happy, otherwise, they will only live into a robot, only know work, do not know what entertainment.

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Slow down, look at the little bits and pieces of life, and you will find a different world.

Unlike the workplace only work, in addition to work or work, after work you can enjoy doing what you like.

Unlike the workplace where there are only results, where data is used to speak, where leisure time is only spent considering whether you like it or not.

Unlike the workplace is only concerned about efficiency, the results of the good or bad, slowing down the pace can be more see the scenery along the road

Life is not like we think only fast, occasionally slow down, rest, and then go but can get twice the result with half the effort.

In recent years, many people choose to quit their jobs because they are too tired to take a temporary break.

At that time, many people chose to travel.

Some people play to find a career they like, simply switch to do their travel bloggers; some people in the process of travel to release the pressure accumulated in the workplace, venting out and then go back to find a new job, more energetic than ever ...... slow down, is not always a way forward.

The process of weight loss, can not avoid the platform period, not to mention the workplace, a fast will only force themselves too tight, rather than the appropriate time to slow down, to give the body time to relax, and then come back to continue to work.

In addition, in addition to working to develop interests, doing what you like, is also very good.

Not only can you release the pressure, relax and enrich your life, you can also develop a skill, anyway, but more skills also are not pressured, know more, the future road can be a little wider, step by step, life will slowly become better.

So that, after working hard, moderate relaxation of their own, send entertainment in leisure, is the real life.

The years are long, but busy people promote themselves; the flowers and snow are leisurely, but the disturbers are redundant. Do not be limited to the meticulousness of life, learn to enjoy life in the fast-paced life, and calmly cope with all the unknown.

There is still more time, according to their rhythm to take every step of life.

No matter how fast or slow, as long as there is walking, each step counts, try your best.

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