Brave and not brave, live a different life

In this life, people will encounter many things.

The most important thing is that you can't do it, and you can do it.

Some people are up to the challenge, some people know the difficulty and retreat; some people do what they can, and some people do not measure up. The choice of what happens determines the direction of their lives.

In our perception, we should be brave in the face of things, but forgot to measure our strength, so some people do things to hurt themselves.

Bravery is the reckless behavior of self-imposed strength.

People live a life, instead of trying to be strong, it is better to "measure the strength".

1. bravery, is the courage of a man

If you don't know how to judge the situation, you will never be able to find the best position to play your strengths.

The reason why a person is like this is because of a lack of self-knowledge.

Sometimes people are like this, they think they can, and they don't know they are wrong until they have suffered a loss.

A brave moment of courage is the courage of the piker, courage without a strategy since it is easy to lose.

Be a person, do not show off your courage because of a moment of anger, and learn to act according to your ability, to go farther and farther down the road of life, the more smoothly, the better.

2. Instead of trying to be strong, it is better to "measure up"

They say: "efforts, paid, to wave away with pride, there is no need to wait until you are bruised and battered to go."

Tried and found that efforts are useless, then you should learn to stop in time, do not wait until you are bruised and tired to go, then want to go another way, only to have the will to go.

People are most afraid of bravado, did not recognize how many points they have, blind confidence, and self-importance.

I've heard the word "Puxin male" an ordinary and confident man, with no bright external conditions, but blindly confident, thinking that no one can match their own, but not in the eyes of others their confidence is just a joke.

It is not like that to be a hero.

There is a cognitive error, mistakenly thinking that "you can".

But overconfidence will only lead to tragedy so that they are in an embarrassing, depressed state, it is difficult to return to the previous.

I've seen a lot of people who don't give in to old age and are aggressive.

One person, when she was young, was a model, relying on a good body to win a lot of opportunities, but as she got older, her metabolism was not as good as before, and then maintaining a good body became a difficult task, no matter how hard she exercised every day, how much less she ate, the body was not as good as when she was young.

I thought she had tried and failed to learn to obey the old, which had thought she would think of using this extreme weight loss, the result of slimming effect has not seen, advanced to the hospital, more loss than gain, hurt their bodies.

People get old, many things have changed, can no longer try to win, with extreme ways to lose weight, only to hurt themselves.

Those who want to keep their youth through cosmetic surgery are not trying to be brave, thinking they can rely on surgery to keep their youth, but forgetting that the risks of surgery are greater than imagined, and what can be kept may not be like what you think.

Instead of trying to be brave, it is better to do what you can, accept your shortcomings, and not force things beyond your ability.

The desire to let go, the heart is pure, life will be better and better.

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Learn to do everything within your means, there will no longer be a situation where you do not measure up.

Power, how to use it, is a discipline of learning.

If you don't use the right amount of force, you'll lose more than you gain, so it's better to use caution.

Learn to use smart "force", and do smart things, to get twice the result with half the effort.

People who live life will encounter countless difficult things, if everything is chaotic force, will only make their own need for force when there is no force to use, such as bravado that, self-imposed force, will only lose more miserable.

For the rest of your life, do not try to be strong, be yourself, will be better.