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The world is not perfect, but worth the struggle

Life is a lot of work, and the competition is long, but we don't know that there are several glory and loss.

By Timothy J CarrierPublished 2 years ago 3 min read
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Life is not as good as it should be, which can be calculated over the gains and losses, rather than learning to treat gains and losses with a normal heart: a more tolerant, less quarrelsome.

More tolerance, fewer quarrels.

The more you are grateful, the less you complain.

In the age of assholery, force yourself to do the right thing.

A person's good luck is not in the origin of high or low, but in the persistent persistence, and willingness to spend time to improve themselves and make themselves better.

1. Do not complain, the smoother the road of life

Hemingway said, "The world is not perfect, but worth the struggle."

Instead of complaining about how life is so bitter, it is better to think about how to live without suffering and find a solution to the problem to free yourself from suffering.

Very often, constantly complaining will only make you live worse. No one can save you, only you can save yourself.

Complaining at first can get approval, but the number of times you say it will be "suspicious", colleagues, friends, and family members are avoiding you.

It is important to know that once people fall into complaining, all they see is bad, they will only feel that they live a bitter life, but can not see the sweet life, so that their lives are getting worse.

Therefore, there is time to complain about life with others, it is better to spend more time thinking about how to solve the problem, in the process of solving the problem to improve themselves so that their life road more and more smooth.

2. willing to tolerate, and reduce unnecessary trouble

Life can not be perfect, one will inevitably encounter trouble, be difficult, and experience wasted ...... If you are always counting, it is undoubtedly asking for trouble.

Calculate to go, the effort to save money, but the loss is not worth the gain, in the end, maybe an empty.

In the business world, some people are calculating everywhere, everything is calculated, think they are very smart, will not let others take advantage of the half, but do not think about the unprofitable business who will do, want to do long often have to be appropriate concessions.

Life is not winning or losing, there is no need to fight for a high or low, instead of calculating everywhere to increase the trouble, why not learn to tolerate, accept and understand that life is not as good?

Regardless of the depth of the relationship, with one more point of tolerance, there is less trouble.

Some things are not necessary to calculate too much, but rather generous, so that the external get-together can be more harmonious, no longer a disagreement on quarrel.

Your tolerance, perhaps in the future will be buried lucky.

3. will be grateful, luck is getting better

Born as a human being, do not know how to be grateful, I am afraid that the more powerful will not go far.

We have a lot of people and things to be thankful for in this life, or parents' nurturing grace, friends' sincere treatment, or teachers' simple kindness ...... seemingly insignificant little things in life, but contain a paragraph of sincere feelings, sincere treatment of people how not to be touched, and how not to be grateful.

It is said that "a drop of grace when the spring to repay." But in front of reality, the real can do is very little.

Some people talk about gratitude, but in reality, they are in revenge, playing the name of gratitude, doing things that hurt people.

Sometimes, it is better to say more gratitude than to take practical action, to sincerely for the heart.

In life, people who know how to be grateful are not bad luck.

Although there are very few things we can do for the people we are grateful to now, step by step, everything will slowly become better.

However, other people help themselves to remember, but they help others and do not think to return.

You should know that help with a purpose is not to help, but a reckoning.

Only when a person learns to be grateful can he or she discover the beauty of life and live his or her own wonderful life in a bittersweet mix.

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