Thought to let go, all free

They use obsession as an excuse to indulge themselves "to do something stupid", into a good, but not afraid that life stops there.

It is important to know that clinging to things that do not belong to them, crying, having made a fuss, all the effort to not get, should choose to give up, otherwise, they will only let themselves live more and more down.

Many times, let go of the obsession, let go of yourself.

1. Let go of expectations

The big and small things in the world, not because there is hope to do, but because of the insistence to do to have hope.

If you do not do too much expectation, in the end, if you do not get the desired results, it will make the joy of success greatly reduced.

So, the more you expect, the easier it is to be disappointed.

Sometimes, let go of expectations and do your best, instead of reaping the surprises.

Although the effort may not always be rewarded, the effort will leave a trace and play a key role in a moment.

Many things in life over-expectation, will be tainted with "selfishness", there is a clear purpose, not only easy to make people resent, but also to let yourself become unlike yourself.

How many people start in the workplace vigorously, full of expectations to make a big show, but in the harsh reality of understanding the difficulty of making money, some people are therefore devastated, and some people start over afterward......

Not everyone can work hard as always after expectations are dashed, more often than not, it is easy to give up halfway.

Instead of expecting too much, the reality is cruel and sad, why not learn to treat everything with a normal heart, gain my fortune, or lose my life?

2. Let go of gains and losses

Life is a cycle of gain and loss, there is gain and loss, and there must be gain, too much care, makes things difficult for themselves.

Not cherishing when you get, and then regretting when you lose, is a mistake that most people have made, some people know that mistakes can be corrected, but some people are wrong and do not know ...... any choice, will eventually come back to themselves.

The gains and losses that can't be let go will become obsessions that trap people who are constantly struggling. The more you struggle, the tighter you will be tied.

We all understand: some things lost are lost, continuing to force is just a waste of time, and finally hurt only themselves.

Instead of treating gains and losses with a negative mindset, you should learn to face everything in life with optimism, cherish what you have now, and say goodbye to "gains and losses" with a smile.

People and things in life, can not always "accompany" who, someone will come, someone will go, no one is essential, can not let go of their own.

It is better to let go of the gains and losses, cherish what you have, and live each day well in the present.

3. Let go of the past

When the past has become the past, it is useless to keep reminiscing.

The "past" that can't be gone can easily become an obsession, trapping oneself to climb up the ladder, allowing one after another unfulfilled ambition to come and go.

Instead of letting yourself live in the past, it is better to let go of the past, find yourself, and start over.

There are still a lot of roads to go, and too much attachment to the past, can not block the way forward, hindering a person's future.

Letting go of the past liberates people who are in bondage.

It is better to waste time and die than to put down the past and be yourself.

Leave the past in your memory and slowly reminisce when you dream at midnight.

However, a person overly concerned about "expectations, gains and losses, the past" will eventually only lead themselves to fall step by step.

The fact is that you'll be able to get a lot more than just a few of these.

The first thing that you need to do is to take the first step.

As long as the courage to take the first step, that can not let go of the "obsession" will probably slowly recede under the efforts of time and again, so that the road that had no way to go back to life.

Put down the obsession, let go of their own, and embrace the happiness.