The winds of change

Everything changes, every second, of every minute, of every hour, of every day. Things are born and things die. Things and people transform. Relationships change with every breath and heartbeat. Attitudes change and much like the wind, feelings and emotions change. They swirl around in the sea of life, sometimes flying high before landing softly where they are meant to be. Opinions change. Thoughts and ideas change too. What you once thought you had a plethora of knowledge about, suddenly has changed into something you no longer understand. Lives change and people within those lives change. Beliefs change. The more you learn, the more you learn. When once you believed the sky to be blue has suddenly changed to an eternal sea of multiple blue hues. A beautiful change but still a change.

Perception accompanies change. It has a lot to do with how we perceive something. To perceive something as one way and then witnessing it’s change, has now also changed your perception of it. To watch the new spring flowers bloom reminds you of a new life, an awakening. Then several months later when they change and die, you accept that death as the natural order of life. It has changed but yet remains the same. From the sun moving it’s path closer then further from us is an expected change. One we seldom think about. Change is imminent, whether you witness it or not. There is no way around change but when it comes to self change, that is a change only we control. You have to need or want that change.

I hear so many people say “I can’t change, I am too old or too stuck in my ways” I call bullshit! Any changes can be made, you have to decide how much you value yourself and your life to make those changes. I am a huge believer in changing for yourself and no one else. If someone wants you to change to accommodate them, then to me that means they don’t like you for you. Sure, slight changes are always made in relationships, some without even knowing it and some for the better of that relationship. Understand that even the simplest of things change. Mostly because we are human. It is inevitable that people change. Like the seasons and the weather, it is all unpredictable. Yet necessary. Life without change would be so boring and unchallenged.

Change is not a bad thing. Some changes can be life altering. Some lead to a clarity like no other. Being able to walk away from something or someone that is not good for you, can be the most uplifting and satisfying feeling of joy. Being “stuck” in a situation that holds you back or down from living your best life is not only unhealthy but painful. Not only for you but for those around you watching. I agree it is difficult for some to change and it does not happen overnight but there is an attitude shift when you decide it is time to make some changes. You look at things differently and view the possibilities that are now within reach. You take that first step, maybe just a baby step, and change a small thing, only to find how easy it really was and at a point you like the sense of accomplishment and want more.

Taking that first step towards change is not saying there was anything ‘wrong’ with you, it is admitting you deserve better. A life where you feel safe and loved. A step in a better direction. Making life the best it can be...not for anyone else, but for YOU. Change your hair, your clothes, pick up and move, change jobs or old unwanted habits. Take a chance, a risk. Change your attitudes. Explore new things that were never a part of your life before. You would be surprised at the things out there just waiting for you to learn. Move out of your comfort zone. Be daring and bold. Get excited and scream at the top of your lungs if that’s what it takes. Dance in the rain always. Let those emotions surface and change how you react to them. Ask yourself if this is what you need and if the answer is yes then DO IT!

Change can be such a great thing for those who truly choose to take a chance and a leap of faith. For those who see nothing wrong with their life or self and may choose not to change, I feel sad for you. Change can bring about the best you and everyone should strive to be a better you. While everything around us changes on a moment to moment basis, join in on those changes and see the beauty that your life can hold. Every second of every minute, of every hour, of every day, just requires a first step. A baby step and should you stumble or fall know that I will be here to help you back on your feet. I can’t take the steps for you but I can be there for support as you take this journey.

In closing I want to quote a good friend who said the following “As things change they evolve into what is meant to be.”

So let me ask you…”What do you want to evolve into?” “Who are you meant to be?” Take a chance and find out.

Much love G.