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The Modest Life

Living On Your Own Terms

By Ashley Published 3 years ago 3 min read
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We all have a one day, looked at yourselves and thought we aren't good enough for society. Instead we bottle ourselves up. Most of us know that feeling. It isn't our fault, it's the society we all live in.

Surround Yourself with Positive Energy

Make sure you have gratitude in the morning. Have good body language. You should take deep breaths. Performing random acts of kindness will definitely help. You will leave a positive impact on other peoples life. A big part of having positive energy is to disconnect from reality.

Let go of What You Can’t control

Appreciate life and live in the present. Stop worrying about what people think. Don’t worry about the future. Stop over thinking situations. Look at failure as a chance to grow and learn. Look for the positive in every situation. Understand that thoughts do not equal reality. Learn to accept yourself and your faults. Drop your ego and understand you are not always right. Learn to enjoy your own company. Look at everything in perspective; mindfully respond rather than react to situations. Accept the unexpected. Let go of the need to always justify your emotions. Always deal with criticism mindfully. Forgive yourself for past mistakes. Forgive people who have hurt you. Recognize that nothing is ever permanent. Take the time to self-reflect. Let go of the need to always justify your emotions.

Smile Often

- Smiling helps you keep a lower blood pressure

- It can decrease stress

- It also makes you feel more confident

- It can elevates joy

- It will make you happier

- Smiling also increases productivity

- You can have lower stress levels and anxiety

- Smiling helps you keep a higher self- esteem.

Surround Ourselves with Positive People

Always keep communication open with family and friends. Communicate with partner and coworkers which all inspire our life. Listen to your gut feeling. Follow your heart and ignore the negativity. Spend time with people who will embrace the kind of lifestyle you are striving for. Avoid the he said she said which is a bunch of bull. Look for the truth in people because at the end of the day ; they are the people who will keep you feeling good.

Look Towards a Positive Lifestyle

Know yourself, state what you want, believe in what you want, and then go get what you want. It's your life so why would you let others rule your life? Don't allow society including social media to impact how you live your life.

Get Out an Enjoy Life

Step out of your comfort zone and be the light. Walk with your head high. Never compare yourself to other individuals. Be willing to take risks. Delete that so called crazy drama. Drama is no longer acceptable in your life. You have to go get what you want. You got it! Allow others to see that you are different. Make a fashion statement and be very bold if that's you. It's all about you so make it happen and be who you where made to be. You only have one life so let's live it to the fullest.

Always be thankful for life. It's precious and everyone should live a happy, healthy, and productive life doing what they enjoy doing in life. Remember you are a gift from heaven and don't change yourself for nobody.

Live, laugh, and learn while enjoying your life.

Always be of good cheer because you are a star. Just believe you are a star and shoot for the stars. Shoot high to the stars like a rocket. Remember no one has the power to hold you back unless you give them control.

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Ashley

Hello everyone I love to write ✍️ and explore the world.

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